Welcome to the premiere episode of the “It’s Not That” series on The Commitment to Growth Podcast! In this series, we delve deep into understanding ourselves and transforming our lives by shifting our perspective toward the struggles we face. Get ready for insightful discussions and practical tips to navigate life's challenges with grace.

In this episode, we explore the intricacies of people-pleasing, uncovering its roots and learning how to heal from it. Mariana takes us on a journey of self-discovery, inviting us to examine our own behaviours and patterns that lead to self-abandonment in our relationships. "People-pleasing" isn't just a label; it's a symptom of deeper emotional wounds. From childhood experiences to societal expectations, we unpack the various factors that contribute to this behaviour. 

Discover how to navigate the triggers that lead you to people-please and empower yourself to prioritize and communicate your needs and desires. Mariana will walk you through a powerful 3-step process to amplify the voice of your heart to reclaim your authenticity and break free from the cycle of people-pleasing - with a bonus included!

Takeaways:

- People-pleasing is a symptom of deeper emotional wounds and learned behaviors.

- Language plays a crucial role in shaping our self-perception and behavior; shifting from "I am a people-pleaser" to "I have people-pleasing tendencies" fosters awareness and growth.

- People-pleasing often stems from childhood experiences, societal expectations, and the desire for love and acceptance.

- Healing from people-pleasing involves mastering the space between stimulus and response, prioritizing self-awareness and authenticity.

- Embracing your truth and speaking from your heart fosters genuine connections and conscious conversations.

- A practical 3-step process is introduced to confront people-pleasing tendencies: identifying limiting beliefs, communicating authentically, and embracing your true self.

- Healing from people-pleasing is a journey of self-discovery and empowerment, leading to greater authenticity and fulfillment in life.

Chapters:

0:40 - How people pleasing creates inner conflict within ourselves

8:10- Holding space for ourselves in healing our people pleasing wounds

11:10 - Reframing how we speak to ourselves to become aware of people-pleasing behaviours

14:45 - Examples of early life experiences that wire us to become people-pleasures

21:44 - The double edged sword involved in people pleasing

23:50 - How people pleasing leads us to live via a perception of a perception

27:20 - How to navigate people pleasing in the corporate world

35:45 - Mariana’s personal examples of how healing people pleasing transformed her life

41:41 - A 3-step process for you to become aware of your people pleaser wounds when they arise and communicate from your authentic truth

In the podcast's latest episode, I'm diving deep into your burning questions in our second official listener Q&A session! Join us as we explore various aspects of personal development and health, covering topics such as:

Tune in for this insightful discussion and get practical tips to enhance your personal growth and resilience. Don't miss out - you might just unlock your true potential!

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Welcome to the first round of the Commitment to Growth Podcast Monthly Q&A series! 5 submissions from regular listeners getting their burning questions answered on all things resilience, self-discovery, relationships, goals, healing, and more!

This month's question submissions were juicy! Make sure to tune in to hear about learning your partner's conflict language, why love does or does not last, how to navigate painful experiences, and how to foster TRUE self-esteem and confidence. Strap in - this is a gold mine!

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How did I gain the courage to quit my full-time job to go ALL-IN on my business and travel South America doing it? I'm talking all about that in this episode: how we self-sabotage when life gets good, why you ARE ready to go after your dreams, and how to fully embody this new identity through inspired action. Grab a journal and join me for this empowering and revealing conversation - and send it to someone who needs to hear it!

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We've all been told that we are all capable of creativity, but how do we tap into that innate human capacity? Why is it so important that we spend more time in our creative energy? In this episode, we chat about how to step into your creative power, how it is a tool for healing ourselves and others, and why our creative expression leads us to our authentic truth.

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2024 begins NOW through the perspectives, habits, routines, and identities that we choose to take on to get ahead of January. In this episode, I'm sharing with you 3 powerful mindset shifts that will bring you more clarity, confidence, abundance, and freedom in the New Year and will power through for the rest of your life. Listen if you are ready to make this your year!

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If you've been feeling hopeless, helpless, and unable to rise from the pain and discomfort that you've been feeling, this conversation is for you. We're talking about to shift out of suffering, how to create joy in our lives, and how to really look at the lessons hidden within our most uncomfortable situations. Let's do this.

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I am thrilled to sit down with you for this insightful and deeply stimulating conversation with none other than my own godmother, Martha Ezeta! We are talking all things physical healing through emotional and spiritual healing FIRST through the perspective of Teos, the medicine that she has been practicing for years. We discuss the effects of mindset and trauma on the body, how these impacts manifest as physical ailments, and how to take our health back. We also discuss DEATH, and how our relationship to this aspect of our reality can enhance our experience of the now. Buckle in for this fascinating conversation -- you'll want to make sure you're writing stuff down!

The neuroscientist mentioned in this episode is Jill Bolt Taylor

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Do you feel tired of feeling like you aren't leveling up? Like you have so much untapped potential, so much more joy and love that you would like to feel... but it never comes? In this episode, I'm going to tell you exactly how and why you are getting in your own way, and exactly what to do about it! Fasten your seatbelts, this is a good one!

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