In April's Ask Andy, Andy Lopata focuses on two listeners' questions. Is it right that we should show our scars not our wounds? Andy discusses how to show our scars we need to have found the solution to a problem and we are then in a position of experience and expertise. If we show our wounds we are showing vulnerability in asking for help. The second question looks at how you deal with the situation when someone uses your vulnerability against you. Andy talks about how you share and who you share with and the importance of trust in relationships.