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 Have you ever caught yourself repeating your parents' behaviors—the very ones you swore to avoid—and wondered why? Keri Logan dives deep into this universal struggle in a heartfelt exploration of why our parents "sucked" at parenting and how we can break these generational patterns.

At the core of this episode is a powerful framework: the difference between 3D and 4D parenting approaches. Through a vivid scenario of a child accidentally breaking a vase, Keri illustrates how parents operating from lower consciousness levels (3D) react with anger and punishment, forcing children down into fear, guilt, and ultimately shame. These moments create lasting core wounds—beliefs that we're unworthy, unlovable, or somehow broken. By contrast, parents functioning at higher consciousness levels (4D) can regulate their emotions, teaching and guiding with compassion rather than condemnation.

The revelation that many of us experienced childhood in 3D environments isn't meant to vilify our parents but to understand them. They weren't equipped with the awareness or tools to parent differently, often carrying unhealed wounds from their own upbringing. Keri shares her personal journey of discovering her parents' stories, which transformed her perspective from resentment to compassion. This episode offers practical guidance on using the consciousness scale to identify triggers, set healthy boundaries, and consciously choose different responses than those modeled for us.

Ready to silence your inner critic and heal those childhood wounds? This episode provides the roadmap to shift from 3D to 4D consciousness in your relationship with yourself and others. Share your own parenting revelations in the comments or reach out with questions about applying these concepts to your unique situation.