Ladies, you know... when you are at happy hour with the girls... you gripe. We all do it! We know that when we are with our girlfriends, it is a safe place to vent so that nobody's feeling get hurt. These are not huge relationship problems, these are small things that irritate us - the simple things that drive us a little crazy. I will focus on the big picture and what is really important - push you to focus on the positive when you are tempted to focus on the negative - find that renewed appreciation of your partner.