PRIME SPACE

The Courage to Say No


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What does it *really* take to build a sustainable, ethical, and successful coaching practice?

In this powerful episode of PRIME SPACE, host Elias Scultori, MCC, sits down with executive coach and HR consultant Michelle Tajudeen, PCC, Managing Director of MetaCC Incorporated, to explore one of the most challenging and defining moments in a coach’s journey: having the courage to say no.

Michelle shares a candid story from early in her coaching career, when a lucrative corporate opportunity required her to compromise the very principles she was trained to uphold. Faced with pressure to guarantee outcomes, impose agendas, and prioritize short-term results over client autonomy, Michelle made a decision that would ultimately shape her reputation, integrity, and long-term success.

Together, Elias and Michelle unpack the realities of coaching in revenue-driven environments, the risks of “voluntold” coaching, and why honoring the client’s process is non-negotiable—even when it feels financially or professionally risky.

This episode is essential listening for new coaches, experienced coaches, mentor coaches, and leaders navigating the intersection of ethics, business, and authenticity.

🎧Episode Highlights

• Why saying yes too quickly can cost you your integrity as a coach
• The hidden dangers of outcome-driven, agenda-based coaching
• What happens when coaches compromise their values—and when they don’t
• How saying no led to an 8-year corporate partnership and coaching 250+ executives
• Trusting intuition as a core professional competency
• Building a coaching brand rooted in credibility, ethics, and authenticity

⏱️ Chapters

00:29 – Meet Michelle Tajudeen, PCC
04:06 – The biggest lesson of Michelle’s coaching journey
08:41 – The cost of compromise in coaching
09:51 – Finding the courage to say no
12:52 – How integrity created unexpected long-term success
14:47 – Reputation, trust, and coaching without compromise
17:13 – Final advice for coaches at every stage

🔑 Key Takeaway Quotes

“It takes real courage to say no as a coach.”
“Integrity will always cost you something upfront—but it pays dividends long term.”
“Trust your intuition. It will lead you back to why you became a coach in the first place.”

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PRIME SPACEBy Elias Scultori, MCC