Trauma, Tacos & True Crime

The Craigslist Killer and The Aftermath We All Live With


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The Craigslist Killer & the Aftermath We All Live With

This episode isn’t about shock value, it’s about what stays in our brains after the headline.

Using the Craigslist Killer case as context, I talk about intuition, silence, politeness, and the everyday ways people ignore their gut just to keep things “cool.” We get into the psychological aftermath, and how the same nervous system responses show up in real life, and why listening to yourself matters more than being agreeable.

This isn’t anti-men, and it’s not about fear.

It’s about awareness, permission, and trusting your body.

As always — real talk with no judgement.


Written and Hosted by: La Dama del Desmadre

Research and Edit by: La Dama Del Desmadre



This episode references the case commonly known as the “Craigslist Killer,” involving Philip Markoff.


Sources used for facts include:


  • Court records and reporting from 2009–2010

  • News coverage from major U.S. outlets

  • Publicly available case summaries and trial reporting

This episode does not sensationalize violence or provide explicit details. The focus is on behaviors, warning signs, and the psychological aftermath experienced by victims and communities.

If you or someone you know has experienced trauma or feels unsafe, support resources are available in your local area.


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Trauma, Tacos & True CrimeBy La Dama Del Desmadre