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This week I'm joined by Melissa Fabello Ph.D, a politicized relationship coach and we get right into the juice from the jump.
In this episode, we're exploring one of the most liberating questions we can ask ourselves: What if the life we've been taught to want isn't actually the life we desire?
We dive into the stories we've inherited around love, relationships, sex, money, and identity; and what becomes possible when we begin to question them.
Together, we unpack why topics like sex and money remain some of the most taboo conversations in our culture, how silence around these subjects often serves existing systems of power, and what it means to reclaim our own agency. We explore authentic desire, queerness, relationship structures, and the freedom that comes from realizing we don't have to live according to someone else's script.
This conversation isn't about telling you what your life or relationships should look like. It's an invitation to become deeply curious about what is truly aligned for you.
Whether you're navigating your sexuality, questioning long-held beliefs, exploring different relationship dynamics, or simply feeling the pull toward a more authentic way of living, this episode offers a compassionate reminder that there are many ways to build a meaningful life...and you have permission to choose your own.
If this conversation resonated with you, we'd love to hear what stood out most. Share the episode with a friend, leave a review, or tag us on social media so we can continue exploring these conversations together.
Melissa and I also have a beautiful upcoming workshop at Cinder & Sound Healing Studio in Rye, NH -- Tending to the Heart: A Workshop for Breakup Grief. "Join somatic practitioner and energy worker Holly Ransom and relationship coach and educator Dr. Melissa A. Fabello in a heart-fortifying workshop for holding and healing from heartbreak. Over the course of two hours, you will have the opportunity to sink into your subconscious in a powerful practice of self-forgiveness that will span movement, sound healing, self-reflection, and storytelling, allowing you to put down some of the burden that you’re carrying around your most recent heartache. Whether you’re mourning the end of a friendship, romantic partnership, or family tie, you are welcome to share your story here and accept the support of the community. Please note that this workshop is not appropriate for grief associated with death." You can save your spot in this heart-healing workshop HERE
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Thank you for being here and for your willingness to question, grow, and imagine new possibilities. We'll see you in the next episode. xoxo MUAH!