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⚠️ The Danger of Depending on Validation | I Rant Too S2 Ep. 11
Let Us Hear YOUR Personal Rants!
In this episode of I Rant Too… with Xavian D. Lewis, we’re having a real and necessary conversation about something almost everyone quietly struggles with: the addiction to validation. And today is special, because Xavian is joined by his very first guest on the show — his father, Dywon Lewis Sr.
Together, they dive deep into how easy it is to build your identity on likes, comments, applause, and opinions instead of who God says you are. Xavian opens the episode with transparency about a season when his confidence wasn’t rooted in God but in digital approval — and his father brings wisdom, grounding, and spiritual insight that adds weight to every part of this conversation.
This episode breaks down how social media trains us to crave affirmation, why low engagement impacts our self-worth, and how comparison quietly robs us of peace. Then we go deeper — into the spiritual dangers of people-pleasing, applause-based identity, and performing for approval.
Through scripture, honest storytelling, generational wisdom, and reflective questions, Xavian and Dywon guide listeners into a powerful identity reset. You’ll learn how to detach from external validation, rebuild confidence from the inside out, and reconnect with a purpose that isn’t built on public approval.
The episode closes with a cinematic, prophetic “Inspirational Rant” reminding you that your value is not up for public vote — and your destiny is not determined by algorithms or audience reaction.
If you’ve ever struggled with comparison, people-pleasing, or needing affirmation to feel confident, this episode will challenge you, free you, and anchor you in truth.
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This podcast is where culture, personal growth, and unapologetic rants collide. Whether we’re breaking down Black culture, mental health, relationships, or life’s biggest lessons—we keep it real, raw, and relatable.
💬 Got a rant-worthy topic?
Drop it in the comments, DM me on IG, or email me at [email protected].
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By Xavian D. LewisLet Us Hear YOUR Personal Rants!
In this episode of I Rant Too… with Xavian D. Lewis, we’re having a real and necessary conversation about something almost everyone quietly struggles with: the addiction to validation. And today is special, because Xavian is joined by his very first guest on the show — his father, Dywon Lewis Sr.
Together, they dive deep into how easy it is to build your identity on likes, comments, applause, and opinions instead of who God says you are. Xavian opens the episode with transparency about a season when his confidence wasn’t rooted in God but in digital approval — and his father brings wisdom, grounding, and spiritual insight that adds weight to every part of this conversation.
This episode breaks down how social media trains us to crave affirmation, why low engagement impacts our self-worth, and how comparison quietly robs us of peace. Then we go deeper — into the spiritual dangers of people-pleasing, applause-based identity, and performing for approval.
Through scripture, honest storytelling, generational wisdom, and reflective questions, Xavian and Dywon guide listeners into a powerful identity reset. You’ll learn how to detach from external validation, rebuild confidence from the inside out, and reconnect with a purpose that isn’t built on public approval.
The episode closes with a cinematic, prophetic “Inspirational Rant” reminding you that your value is not up for public vote — and your destiny is not determined by algorithms or audience reaction.
If you’ve ever struggled with comparison, people-pleasing, or needing affirmation to feel confident, this episode will challenge you, free you, and anchor you in truth.
✅ LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more spicy takes, real talk, and community vibes every week!
🚀 Want to take the insights further?
📖 Grab My eBook & Save 15%!
Learn how to invoke change in your life with my exclusive guide. Use code IRant2 at checkout!
👉 xavianlewis.gumroad.com
🎙 Thinking About Starting Your Own Podcast?
Check out my go-to podcasting gear & tools here:
👉 https://www.amazon.com/shop/therealxavianlewis
💼 Own a Small Business? Let’s Spotlight You for FREE!
Want a chance to get featured on the podcast? Fill out this quick form:
👉 https://forms.gle/pxc2E3wYQNpMtJ657
💬 Let’s Connect!
🌍 Brand Partnerships & Business Inquiries: [email protected]
✨ Follow the Journey:
📸 Instagram: @xaviandlewis | @iranttoowithxaviandlewis
📘 Facebook: Xavian Lewis | I Rant Too... with Xavian D. Lewis
🎵 TikTok: @TheLewisBrand
🎤 What’s I Rant Too… with Xavian D. Lewis all about?
This podcast is where culture, personal growth, and unapologetic rants collide. Whether we’re breaking down Black culture, mental health, relationships, or life’s biggest lessons—we keep it real, raw, and relatable.
💬 Got a rant-worthy topic?
Drop it in the comments, DM me on IG, or email me at [email protected].
Scott Buckley - This Too Shall Pass is under a YouTube Free license.
/ musicbyscottb
Music powered by BreakingCopyright:
• 😲 Dramatic Emotional Background Music (For...
🔎 Find more music here: https://breakingcopyright.com
🚨 Affiliate Disclaimer:
Some links may be affiliate links, meaning I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. Supporting these links helps keep the podcast running!
Support the show