Rising Above with Becky Davidson

"The Dark Side Rules" discussion with Mandy Rawls


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About the Episode

In this deeply honest episode, host Becky Davidson sits down with guest Mandy Rawls for a powerful conversation about the emotional complexities of parenting children with special needs. Together, they unpack the concept of the “dark side rules”—an unspoken agreement that both parents can’t emotionally spiral at the same time. Through personal stories and lived experiences, Becky and Mandy explore how this principle helps families stay afloat in the midst of overwhelming challenges.

Listeners will hear candid reflections on grief, strength, vulnerability, and the vital role of support systems. From coping mechanisms to the importance of community, faith, and friendship, this episode offers a raw yet hopeful look into the reality of special needs parenting. Whether you're a parent on a similar path or someone seeking to better understand and support those who are, this conversation will leave you encouraged and inspired.

Key Takeaways:

  • The “dark side rules” offer emotional balance in high-stress parenting situations.

  • It’s essential for one parent to stay grounded when the other is struggling.

  • Grief, overwhelm, and joy can coexist—and acknowledging all is part of the journey.

  • Vulnerability and community are not weaknesses but lifelines.

  • Faith and trusted relationships can be sources of deep strength and healing.

  • Join Becky and Mandy as they shine a light on the hard, holy work of special needs parenting—and the hope that can be found even in the darkest places.

     

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    Respite for Your Mind

    “Darkside Rules” 

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