Tolerating or condoning behaviors and practices is typically considered a positive way to negotiate differences

We use all kinds of justifications when we tolerate something, comments like, THEY DIDNOT MEAN IT, ITS NOT A BIG DEAL, THEY WILL CHANGE OVER TIME are examples of how we give into the lower road in love and all kinds of relationships.

We have all been tolerated at some point in our lives , BUT AN EXAGGERATED TOLERANCE CAN HARM WELL BEING

One thing I find so fascinating about the human brain is that whatever becomes routine is delegated to the unconscious mind for efficiency. So if we are not consciously choosing, the unconscious takes over.

Humanbeings are complicated, we have the duty to love everyone unconditionally but the right to choose who must be in our inner circle