The Decided Mind

Hurt people, hurt people. We’ve all heard this statement, but what if they don’t know that they are hurt? What if they have an Unhealed Identity that he’s kept them functioning on survival mode? What if you have an Unhealed Identity that has kept you stuck all these years? Stuck in the same cycle, the same season, with the same experiences. In today’s Podcast I share the meaning behind an Unhealed Identity and how you can fix it. If you can define it then you can defeat it. Today we are deciding to check our Unhealed Identity. Stay Decidedly!

Time is something all living and breathing things have in common. We all have 24 hours in a day, and what we do with that time is what separates us from pack. Time either promotes you or exposes you. Time is fleeting, it waits for no man, so we have to use it to our advantage. Whatever you are working on in the dark will come to the light when the pressure hits. What are you doing with your time? Are you doing the internal work to get better as a person? Are you doing the internal work to heal and grow? What have you been avoiding that you know needs your time? In today’s Podcast I focused in on the importance of time and why being intentional about internal work is so crucial. Today we are deciding to use time as a motivator. Stay Decided.

Things are going to happen to you in this life. You will experience pain, hurt and joy. The things that happen to you is just that, things that happen to you. Happiness is a choice! Scar tissue is proof that you’ve healed from something. Yes! A scar is proof that you survived! Now what residue is still left? What things do you still have to heal from? You can use the things you’ve been through to push you up or hold you back. In today’s Podcast I share a deep story of mine, and how I’ve used it to heal and also to be pushed forward. Today we are deciding to heal. Stay Decided!

Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result. So many people are in a routine that they are afraid to change. People have experienced hurt, deception, infidelity, and they still stay stuck. What keeps you stuck is your view of YOU. Do you believe in yourself? Do you think you can change? Well to leave a bad situation whether it’s a job, relationship, friendship, or an environment, it all takes courage. Courage is not the absence of fear, it’s doing what needs to be done with fear present. In today’s Podcast I discuss some things that will help awaken your courage. Today we are deciding to have courage. Stay Decided.

Have you paid attention to the results that you are seeing in your life? Did you know that your thoughts are the cause and your results are the effect? I know that sounds crazy but it’s true. What is your major focuses on your state of mind. What thoughts occupy your mind constantly? How is your view of your life? In today’s podcast I focus in on your frame of mind and how to recognize patterns of thought that may be hurting you. Today we are deciding to find out what our major is. Stay decided!

Where does your identity come from? Did you know it’s shaped by the people you surround yourself with, your environment, and the challenges your face? What is your identity telling you about yourself? People identify themselves by past failures. Not understanding that failure doesn’t define you. Failure shapes you. Your identity may have become your reality because you accepted a label that isn’t true about you. In today’s Podcast I share some life changing tips to help you reshape who you think you are. Today we are deciding to reshape our identity. Stay Decided.

Have you paid attention to what you see around you? What you are you seeing in your reality? Did you know that what you see and the results you are getting is proof. What proof? Proof of the things that you apply or the things that you don’t apply. Your behavior is proof of the labels you’ve accepted as true or proof that you’re still carrying bitterness. Bitterness is a wound that hasn’t healed. What proof do you see? Proof is potent and you can learn from it. In today’s Podcast I share some practical things to help bring awareness to what you are currently proving in your life. Today we are deciding to pay attention to our results. Stay Decided!

How many seasons in your life seem to be on repeat? That’s a great indicator that you’ve been making the same decisions. Those choices stem from how you think and what you think about YOU. The longer you view yourself a certain way, means the longer you will view yourself that exact way. Healing is a huge part of change. People are afraid to sit still long enough to deal with the pain of change. Once the pain of remaining the same hurts to much, that’s when people change. In today’s Podcast I highlight a few things that will help you along your healing journey. Today we are deciding to heal. Stay Decided.

There is a time to laugh. There is a time to cry. Have you ever heard of a time to separate? In some seasons, in order for growth to happen, you have to separate from things and people that have become anchors. You may have to separate from some behaviors, beliefs, and patterns that have held you back. In today’s Podcast I speak on these things and the importance of recognizing when you need to enter into the season of separation. In today’s Podcast we are deciding to recognize when we need to enter into the season of separation. Stay Decided.

Did you know that you have a part of you that is comfortable with who you’ve always been? A part of you that despises change and would rather remain the same. There is also a version of you that you default to when things get tough. Between the two, time passes, opportunities are missed, and you wake up stuck in a season that you are tired of repeating. In today’s Podcast I share some things to help you wake up to the reality that you are in control. That you re the captain of your ship. Today we are deciding to face our greatest adversary. Stay Decided.