When your teen starts to push back, and exhibit defiant behavior, it can be a defining moment in your relationship. This behavior is a real challenge for parents and can create real anxiety for the both parent and child. Teen and family expert Ian Hoge shares how the opportunity in defiance is to re-evaulate our parenting styles and discover what areas of strength we bring to our parenting and what areas we need to work in order to deal more mindfully and effectively with our teens.