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The Delicate Balance of Guiding Young Minds
On this episode of the Raider Ramble Podcast, Head of School Tom Flemma has an in-depth conversation with Dr. David Yeager about his groundbreaking book, "10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People." Discover key insights and strategies for encouraging and inspiring young individuals in this engaging chat.
Here are the key takeaways we have for you:
- Mentor Mindset: Great leaders in various fields employ a "mentor mindset," maintaining high standards while providing the necessary support for young people to meet these standards.
- Enforcer vs. Protector Mindset: Common alternative approaches are the "enforcer mindset" (high standards, low support) and the "protector mindset" (low standards, high support), both of which are less effective than the mentor mindset.
- High Standards, High Support: The optimal approach combines high expectations with ample support, challenging the binary choice between being authoritarian or overly lenient.
- Adolescent Capability: Contrary to popular misconceptions of the adolescent brain as hormonally compromised, young people are capable of making excellent decisions when properly motivated and framed.
- Societal View on Adolescents: Society often undervalues adolescents, viewing them as problematic, which influences how adults interact with them.
- Status and Respect as Motivators: Adolescents are highly sensitive to their social standing and respect, which can be leveraged positively to encourage desirable behaviors.
- Avoiding "Groansplaining": Communicating in a way that respects adolescents' need for respect and status, avoiding condescending explanations, is crucial.
- Reframing for Respect and Status: Behavior that adults desire from adolescents should be framed in a way that aligns with their deep-seated need for respect and status.
- Encouraging Agency: While not advocating for a lack of structure, it's important to find ways to enable adolescents to have a sense of agency, helping them feel pride and accomplishment from their own actions.
- Balance in Authority: Effective parenting or leadership involves a balance where young people feel empowered but within a framework where adults still guide and set boundaries.
LINKS
10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People
https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/10-to-25/David-Yeager/9781668023884
FAN (Family Action Network)
https://www.familyactionnetwork.net
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By North Shore Country DayOn this episode of the Raider Ramble Podcast, Head of School Tom Flemma has an in-depth conversation with Dr. David Yeager about his groundbreaking book, "10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People." Discover key insights and strategies for encouraging and inspiring young individuals in this engaging chat.
Here are the key takeaways we have for you:
- Mentor Mindset: Great leaders in various fields employ a "mentor mindset," maintaining high standards while providing the necessary support for young people to meet these standards.
- Enforcer vs. Protector Mindset: Common alternative approaches are the "enforcer mindset" (high standards, low support) and the "protector mindset" (low standards, high support), both of which are less effective than the mentor mindset.
- High Standards, High Support: The optimal approach combines high expectations with ample support, challenging the binary choice between being authoritarian or overly lenient.
- Adolescent Capability: Contrary to popular misconceptions of the adolescent brain as hormonally compromised, young people are capable of making excellent decisions when properly motivated and framed.
- Societal View on Adolescents: Society often undervalues adolescents, viewing them as problematic, which influences how adults interact with them.
- Status and Respect as Motivators: Adolescents are highly sensitive to their social standing and respect, which can be leveraged positively to encourage desirable behaviors.
- Avoiding "Groansplaining": Communicating in a way that respects adolescents' need for respect and status, avoiding condescending explanations, is crucial.
- Reframing for Respect and Status: Behavior that adults desire from adolescents should be framed in a way that aligns with their deep-seated need for respect and status.
- Encouraging Agency: While not advocating for a lack of structure, it's important to find ways to enable adolescents to have a sense of agency, helping them feel pride and accomplishment from their own actions.
- Balance in Authority: Effective parenting or leadership involves a balance where young people feel empowered but within a framework where adults still guide and set boundaries.
LINKS
10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People
https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/10-to-25/David-Yeager/9781668023884
FAN (Family Action Network)
https://www.familyactionnetwork.net