You ever catch yourself thinking “I can fix them”? Like maybe if you just love them a little harder, pour a little more in, they’ll finally become who you know they could be? This episode is your wake-up call. We’re diving into the “fixer” mindset—the idea that you can change someone who isn’t ready or willing to change themselves—and why it’s secretly draining your peace, your confidence, and your time.Whether you’ve been the one trying to save someone from their own chaos, or you’re stuck in a cycle of hoping they’ll finally see your worth—this one’s for you. I’m unpacking how codependency disguises itself as care, why real love doesn’t feel like constant effort, and how to stop tying your value to someone else’s potential.You are not their project. Not their rehab. Not their hero. You deserve a relationship that builds you, not breaks you. So if you're ready to break free from fixer mode and finally choose yourself, press play.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@eleanorrosekreamer_](https://www.tiktok.com/@eleanorrosekreamer_) 📸 Instagram: [@eleanorrosekreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨