Are you relying on the Holy Spirit or soulish understanding? Discernment only comes from the Spirit of God speaking to us, not from our own knowledge or judgment. Seducing and deceptive spirits can be far more manipulative than we realize, so always stay close to Jesus and rely on His wisdom.
"But unto you I say, and unto the rest in Thyatira, as many as have not this doctrine, and which have not known the depths of Satan, as they speak; I will put upon you none other burden." Revelation 2:24