The Developing Medium

Spirit gave me a download on a cruise ship, and it was about musical theater. In this episode of The Developing Medium, I’m sharing why I believe musical theater and mediumship have more in common than you’d think, and how my stage days made me a better medium.

We cover:

• Getting out of your own head
• Why rehearsal builds freedom, not just repetition
• Separating yourself from the spirit you’re reading for
• Why mediumship is subtle (be the camera actor, not the theater actor)
• Confidence and “fake it till you make it”
• Why practice matters
• Jealousy and “some people are just naturally better”
• Stepping into the role
• Having fun with your readings

This week’s homework: Sit in the power three times for 15 minutes each and use the thinning veil to your advantage. Ask for a sign, manifest, and write down anything you feel.

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Happy Halloween! 🎃

Recorded in the middle of a nor'easter on very little sleep, Caitlin opens with a spirited (pun intended) update about the fire department, a haunted hotel memory, and a family member's spooky encounter with a spirit in a Pennsylvania hotel room. That story leads into a bigger question: why does spirit seem to show up most in places where we're relaxed and open, like hotel rooms — and what can you do to protect your energy when you don't want the visit?

Caitlin also shares a chills-inducing story from a recent class about sign language, spirit communication, and trusting the extra details that come through, plus an update on wrapping up her mentorship with Darren and what she learned about sitting with her own emotions around endings.

Then she gets into something heavier: a growing conversation in the mediumship community about ethics, social media, and what happens when a following gets bigger than someone's actual ability. She walks through a recent controversy involving several mediums and shares Sean Collins' widely-discussed post asking, "Is social media sabotaging mediumship?" — a reflection on humility, credibility, and what it really takes to develop as a medium, in full.

This episode also comes with homework: 10 minutes of journaling on how you feel about endings (or some emotions in general).

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Caitlin kicks things off with a personal update, plus a raw reflection on the 25th anniversary of 9/11 and what she wishes we'd all remember about kindness and community.

Then she dives into this week's main topic: please don't abuse your mediums. After a reading where an uninvited "extra guest" ended up getting a free session, Caitlin talks candidly about the boundaries mediums need — being upfront about who's in the room, not demanding readings for people who didn't book them, and treating your medium the way you'd treat any hardworking professional.

To wrap up, Caitlin answers six of your Instagram questions.

Plus, a shoutout to her husband's new venture, Fireside Travel (@fireside_travel.us) — first responder and passionate traveler owned.

I'm late to the eclipse — and I'm not sorry, because it gave me time to go deep. This week I'm unpacking the August 27–28 lunar eclipse.

We'll cover what's actually happening up there physically, what it means energetically and astrologically for every sign, and the wild things different cultures throughout history believed was happening. Then we bring it back down to earth: what this eclipse is asking each of us to release, how it shows up in mediumship and psychic sensitivity, and a simple ritual you can still do even though the eclipse has passed.

Whether you missed this one too or you're just eclipse-curious, this episode is your permission slip to release what you're ready to let go of — late, on time, or anywhere in between.

Have you ever looked at the clock and seen 11:11, noticed the same number on receipts, license plates, or signs, and wondered, “Is this a message?” 

In this episode Caitlin sits down with Laura Fox to dive into the fascinating world of angel numbers and numerology.

What do 111, 222, 333, 444, 555, and even 666 really mean? Are some numbers negative? Can a number have a completely personal meaning just for you? And how can you tell the difference between a meaningful sign and simply noticing something because you're looking for it?

Laura shares her own experiences with angel numbers—including her lifelong connection to the number 13—and explains how numbers can become personalized forms of communication from spirit. We talk about the places signs can show up, how numbers can appear in dreams, and what happens when multiple signs seem to line up at once.

So if you've been seeing the same numbers over and over—or you're simply curious about what those little synchronicities might mean—this episode will have you looking at the clock, your receipts, and maybe even license plates a little differently. 👀✨

Laura Fox: @gracefullotus13 on Instagram

Books mentioned:
Numerology and the Divine Triangle by Dusty Bunker
Life Cycles: Your Emotional Journey to Freedom by Christine Dalory

Today's episode is a lighter one — a life update plus a love letter to mediumship classes and why they matter so much for your development. Caitlin shares what's been going on behind the scenes this summer, then gets into why she believes classes — whether in-person, on Zoom, or at weekend conferences — are essential for growing as a medium.

Drawing on a recent class with her teacher Darren, Caitlin unpacks his line that "mediumship is on-the-job training," and talks about why specificity matters in a reading, how vagueness can feel like a safety net (but limits your growth), and why community with other developing mediums is one of the most valuable parts of the process.

Then, just for fun: a (loving) rundown of the personalities you'll meet in every mediumship class. Take a listen and see if you recognize yourself!

IG: @TheDevelopingMedium

Psychic medium and nurse practitioner Nick Lodato joins me for one of my favorite conversations yet. After experiencing an incredible reading with Nick, I knew I had to bring him on the podcast to talk about his unique path, balancing two healing professions, and the lessons he's learned from over a decade of reading professionally. 

In this episode, we dive into:

• How severe anxiety led Nick to discover his mediumship.
• His training with renowned medium Pat Longo and the life-changing Surround, Ground & Shield technique.
• Why confidence—not perfection—is one of the biggest keys to becoming a better medium.
• How to handle "no" responses during readings without losing your connection to Spirit.
• The importance of energetic boundaries, especially for empaths and healthcare workers.
• Balancing a demanding career in medicine while maintaining a thriving mediumship practice.
• Why silence, meditation, and grounding are essential for developing your intuition.
• The role of free will, soul contracts, grief, and personal growth in our spiritual journeys.

Whether you're just beginning to explore your intuition or you're actively developing your mediumship, this conversation is filled with practical advice, honest stories, and reassuring reminders that every medium's path is different.

Nick also shares why he believes anyone can strengthen their intuition, how to protect your energy without shutting down your gifts, and why learning to trust yourself is far more important than striving for perfection.

If you've ever wondered how someone balances science and spirituality—or you're looking for encouragement on your own mediumship journey—you won't want to miss this episode.

Nick Instagram: nvlodato1

Email: [email protected]

In this personal and reflective episode of The Developing Medium, Caitlin shares recent experiences that have challenged, inspired, and deepened her understanding of mediumship.

From searching for signs after the passing of a loved one to witnessing unexpected reminders that spirit is always near, Caitlin explores how communication with the other side often arrives in the most surprising ways. She discusses a powerful experience at a funeral, a fascinating update on her heart-monitor experiment during readings, and the spiritual lessons she learned from attending a live event with renowned channeler Lee Harris.

Caitlin also opens up about recent mediumship readings, the importance of trusting your own development, and a simple but powerful exercise that transformed her connection with spirit.

Most importantly, she tackles a difficult ethical question every developing medium will face: How do you deliver information from spirit responsibly when you don't fully understand what it means? Through a deeply personal story, Caitlin examines the fine line between sharing what you receive, protecting the sitter, and honoring the role of the medium as an interpreter.

What are the Akashic Records, and why are so many people turning to them for guidance, healing, and spiritual growth?

In this episode, I sit down with Akashic Records reader and color frequency healer Hether Gage to explore one of the most fascinating and misunderstood spiritual modalities. Together, we dive into what the Akashic Records actually are, whether they can reveal information about past lives, and how accessing this energetic field can provide insight into the challenges, patterns, and opportunities we face today.

Hether shares how she personally accesses the Records, what the experience feels like, and how the information comes through during a reading. We also explore practical applications of the Records, including how they can support personal growth, decision-making, and even mediumship development. Hether explains how often someone should access their Records, common mistakes beginners make, and the best ways to begin learning this work for themselves.

Whether you're completely new to the Akashic Records or already exploring your intuitive abilities, this conversation offers a grounded and insightful look into how this powerful spiritual practice can help you deepen your connection with yourself, your intuition, and the wisdom available beyond the physical world.

If you've ever wondered whether there's a deeper source of wisdom available to you, this episode is the perfect place to start.

Hether's website: https://www.theinwardguide.com/

Hether's IG: @theinwardguide

In this episode, Caitlin opens up about burnout, emotional overwhelm, and the realities of balancing mediumship with everyday life. From experiences in EMS and witnessing loss firsthand, to navigating self-doubt before readings, this episode explores the emotional side of being sensitive to energy and spirit.

Caitlin also shares advice for developing mediums on how to find the right mentor, why you don’t necessarily need a reading to begin your spiritual journey, and how Spirit often places the right people and experiences in our path at exactly the right time.

She dives into:

• Why your accuracy can change from reading to reading
• How stress, exhaustion, hormones, and emotions affect mediumship
• Why information sometimes comes through out of order
• The importance of trusting what Spirit gives you
• How different spirits communicate in completely different ways
• Letting go of perfectionism and fear during readings

Plus, Caitlin reflects on the importance of having spiritually like-minded friends, shares stories about Spirit “setting people up” for meaningful experiences, and talks about the humanity of grief and loss through her work in emergency services.

Whether you’re actively developing your gifts or simply curious about how mediums experience Spirit communication, this episode is a reminder that mediumship is not about perfection — it’s about trust, connection, and learning to flow with the process.