So often, our behaviors are motivated by conflicting and competing objectives.

Love

Empathy

Compassion

Altruism

But just beneath lurks our hidden agenda.

People pleasing

Perfectionism

Conflict Avoidance

Worthiness + Approval Seeking

How can we tell the difference?

How can we identify what's driving our behavior in a given moment — and intervene to redirect it?

Only when we know what we're truly seeking can we ever hope to find it.

HERE'S A SNEAK PEEK OF THE GOODNESS… "People pleasing comes from a place of lack, and love comes from a place of abundance." — Jenna "When we're motivated by love, we don't need to compromise our values." — Jenna "Shame is an outcome of people pleasing and perfectionism." — Jenna "Tell the compassionate truth." — Ashley WHAT YOU'LL LEARN ABOUT IN THIS EPISODE…

• The origins of people pleasing versus the origins of love

• The tension between people pleasing, boundaries, and values

• What it feels like to give and receive love versus people pleasing

• Tools for telling the difference between people pleasing and love

• Developing your own personal commandments

LINKS

MFTP Episode 107: The Middle Finger Project with Ash Ambirge

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