SOOOOO, baby is due in 19 days and we are still waiting and hoping for Permanent Residency, so that we can stay in our lovely little lives in Australia (as we have done collectively for 15 years )

If we don’t get permanent residency, Lewis and I face deportation in August 2025… with our newborn baby.

We have done everything in our power to remain here, and jumped through all the expected hoops the government put out for us.

This episode is all about our permanent residency struggle, our petition with change.org and how we are coping with so much uncertainty, with a baby on the way so soon!

We have only 12 weeks left until our visas expires and we are very much facing the reality that we may have to leave our whole lives in Australia behind, to head back to the UK with a newborn and start all over again.

Here is the link for our petition, that has reached an almost whopping 10K signatures:

https://chng.it/LrK5McbCwk

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE sign and share if you haven’t already!!

The more signatures we have, the more likely Minister of Immigration Tony Burke will treat our case with the seriousness and urgency it needs.

Love you guys and we will be taking you on the journey with us regardless  xoxo

Okay okay, we’ve done the thing where we have found out we are pregnant and now EVERYTHING is about pregnancy and babies and we are sorry to say we are not actually sorry 

Listen in to hear more about YOUR insights from social media on parenting struggles and how we think we will cope/navigate them, including:

-Partner Resentment

-Lack of Sleep

-Loss of Identity

-Mum Carrying a Bigger Load

-Passive Aggressive Competition About Who Has Done More Each Day

…And more!! 

This is the episode for you if you’re thinking about starting a family, pregnant, or a new parent looking for some validation!

You can also email us @ [email protected] for a chance to have your relationship questions answered (anonymously) on the podcast.

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Hello TDHR fam, it’s been a hot minute but we are back with a superrrr hot episode for you  
This episode you do NOT want to miss!!
Listen to hear more about:
-why we have been MIA the last 3 months
-our decision to have a baby
-our conception journey
-how we found out we were pregnant
-our experience of pregnancy so far
-our moving house experience
-why we think a large amount of people assumed us being pregnant was a ‘surprise/accident’
-whether Saz’s sickness in Bali was morning sickness or genuinely Bali belly
-Lewis’s fear of being a ‘dead beat dad’
-our hopes for where we want to live by the end of the year (UK or Australia)
-the things we have found the most challenging in the last 3 months
-the things we are both most excited for about our year
(Trigger warning - we talk about trying to conceive and share our journey honestly and are aware this is super challenging for people to listen to)
You can also email us @ [email protected] for a chance to have your relationship questions answered (anonymously) on the podcast.
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So you may or may not know that we don't live in our own country which is the UK

Listen to our Pro's and Con's List of how we find living so far away from our families

This can also be a challenging time in any relationship. However we cope as best we can

Learn about how we navigate this and what helps us out as a couple

You can also email us @ [email protected] for a chance to have your relationship questions answered (anonymously) on the podcast.

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Improving communication in your relationship is vital for longevity.

Join us in this episode as we discuss a few hurdles that we have overcome this week and how we navigated it in a safe, supportive and calm way.

If you have any questions, queries or would like any advice on how to improve your relationship, please don't hesitate to get in touch :)

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In this episode we dive deep into the importance of ‘accepting influence’ in your relationship (in particular for men) using research and evidence based theories.
Did you know that emotionally intelligent husbands/boyfriends are the key to lasting relationships/marriages?
We discuss some interesting concepts around why women naturally accept influence more than men, including why how playing ‘house’ or ‘mums and dads’ can actually build emotional intelligence in children. Emotional intelligence for the win!!
We also talk on how ‘accepting influence’ plays out in our own relationship too!
In essence, do you want to always be ‘right’ in your relationship, or do you want it to succeed and continue?
As always, keeping it raw, real and unfiltered
If you’re experiencing abuse, in a domestic violence relationship, or generally feeling controlled, unsafe or scared, please seek support when safe to do so.
In Australia you can call 1800RESPECT
In the UK you can call 08082000247
You can also email us @ [email protected] for a chance to have your relationship questions answered (anonymously) on the podcast.
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In this episode we talk about Saz’s grief journey following the death of her Nan and the anniversary of her brothers death both last week, how to support a grieving partner, updates on our life since we both returned to Australia, our plans to move back to the UK and the resilience and strengths of humans and us as a couple and MORE!!

You can also email us @ [email protected] for a chance to have your relationship questions answered (anonymously) on the podcast.

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So as you know with life there comes the good the bad and the ugly and we are here to share IT ALL in this episode.

- DISCLAIMER it’s not for the faint hearted  

We talk about our good news and our not so good news, Saz’s spiritual moment, our 2nd case of Bali belly, how to bring things back to basics in your relationship when everything feels like it’s going against you and MORE!!

You can also email us @ [email protected] for a chance to have your relationship questions answered (anonymously) on the podcast.

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In this episode we talk about our one year of being in a (consistently) healthy relationship.
We talk about the importance of emotional safety in a relationship (and what happens when you don’t have it too), as well as what we would change in the last year.
We also threw in a little Bali/visa situation update too, because we know how nosey you all are (you wouldn’t be listening if you weren’t so don’t even deny it )
Trust us when we say, relationships actually get to be this good!
You can also email us @ [email protected] for a chance to have your relationship questions answered (anonymously) on the podcast.
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In this episode Lewis and I basically give you the low down on what f*ck is going on in our lives right now (and trust us, it’s shitty )

Waiting in Bali for a visa to be approved ain’t as fun as you might assume it could be.

Listen in to find out more about what happened, how we are coping and how it’s helped us grow as a couple (yes of course we put a positive spin on it too)!

You can also email us @ [email protected] for a chance to have your relationship questions answered (anonymously) on the podcast.

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So, if you’re ready for unfiltered conversations and massive impact, then let’s play