The Divested Diary

In this episode of The Divested Diary, Sharika Soal gets real about the devastating consequences of progressive policies like ending cash bail and defunding the police. With the tragic deaths of women like Kada Scott and the Ukrainian immigrant Iryna Zarutska—both killed by black men who should never have been free—Sharika explores how the so-called “justice reforms” have left women, especially Black women, more vulnerable than ever.

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Twitter: @SharikaSoal84

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Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition.

What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope.

Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed.

Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.

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In this deeply personal episode, Sharika Soal opens up about the heartbreaking rise in suicides among Black women — the ones who don’t fit the loud stereotypes, who carry trauma quietly, and who are overlooked until they’re gone.

She talks about the lack of access to culturally competent mental health care, the performative empathy in comment sections, and why she no longer encourages Black women to speak out if it means sacrificing their mental well-being for a community that doesn’t protect them.

Connect with Sharika:

Twitter: @SharikaSoal84

Divested Diary Website

Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."



Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition.

What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope.

Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed.

Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.

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This episode contains blunt commentary and some triggering truths. If you think divestment is hate — you should probably stop here. But if you’re tired of your image being tied to dysfunction, pull up a seat, sis.

In this powerful and unapologetic episode of The Divested Diary, Sharika breaks down the crucial difference between being Black — and being a part of the self-destructive culture often excused under the N-word. From glorified dysfunction to toxic loyalty, she’s calling it out and drawing the line.

Because we’re not all the same — and we shouldn’t be treated like we are. It’s time to separate, to elevate, and to stop defending the indefensible. This one’s not for the fragile. It’s for the free.

Connect with Sharika:

Twitter: @SharikaSoal84

Divested Diary Website

Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."



Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition.

What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope.

Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed.

Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.

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In this powerful episode of The Divested Diary, we explore what it truly means to be an American through the lens of personal experience, resilience, and a deep connection to the country. Host Sharika Soal shares a heartfelt perspective on being Black, adopted, and growing up within the American foster care system. This episode delves into the complex feelings of identity, struggle, and hope as Sharika reflects on the hardships she's faced as a Black conservative woman in America.

Sharika reminds us that being American goes beyond race or political alignment. It’s about living, breathing, and enduring everything that shapes this country—the trauma, the triumphs, the patience, the rage, and the never-ending fight for something better. Whether you’re from a small town or a bustling city, if you’ve struggled, survived, and still have hope for change, you embody the spirit of America.

In this eye-opening episode of The Divested Diary, Sharika takes a deep dive into the political career of Kamala Harris and why she believes it's time for Black women to divest from supporting the current Vice President and 2024 Democratic presidential nominee. Sharika unpacks Harris' policies, actions, and how they’ve affected the Black community—particularly Black women.

With an honest critique of identity politics and the expectation that Black women should automatically support Black female politicians, Sharika challenges this narrative, urging listeners to consider what true representation looks like and how to make informed political choices. Tune in to hear her compelling case for why divestment from Kamala Harris is a necessary step toward a stronger future for Black women.

Connect with Sharika:

Twitter: @SharikaSoal84

Divested Diary Website

Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."



Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition.

What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope.

Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed.

Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.

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In this episode, Sharika Soal discusses the BET Awards and Democrats.

In the past, the BET Awards celebrated black excellence, featuring elegant gowns and high-class attire that represented integrity and sophistication.

However, Sharika observes that the current BET Awards often showcase women dressed in provocative or street-style clothing, which she finds concerning.

The awards used to recognize excellence in various fields within the black community, such as humanitarian work, philanthropy, and medical science.

Nowadays, there’s a heavy focus on categories like rap. Sharika expresses her reservations about the rap industry’s impact on the black American image.

Sharika believes that the rap industry can perpetuate a dangerous lifestyle. She questions whether the BET Awards adequately acknowledge the risks faced by aspiring rappers.

Connect with Sharika:

Twitter: @SharikaSoal84

Divested Diary Website

Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."



Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition.

What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope.

Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed.

Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.

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The host discusses how black men gang stalk and disrespect black women online. This fuels the divestment movement, where black women separate themselves from black men and culture. The host argues that black women who take care of themselves do not tolerate this behavior. She says it is embarrassing to be associated with men who disrespect black women. The host wants black men to stop making black women feel disrespected if they want loyalty and support.

Connect with Sharika:

Twitter: @SharikaSoal84

Divested Diary Website

Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."



Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition.

What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope.

Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed.

Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.

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Sharika Soal discusses why black women should disassociate from transgender advocacy. She argues they face high rates of violence from black men yet focus on transgender issues rather than their own safety. Soal cites statistics and hypothetical scenarios to suggest black transgender women don't need black women's assistance. The message encourages black women to prioritize issues directly impacting their community over transgender causes.

Connect with Sharika:

Twitter: @SharikaSoal84

Divested Diary Website

Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."



Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition.

What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope.

Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed.

Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.

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In this episode, Sharika discusses how the black family unit can often be a toxic environment. She advocates for black people, especially women, to "divest" or distance themselves from unsupportive family members who hold them back. Sharika shares her own experiences with toxic family dynamics and encourages listeners to prioritize their mental health and success over dysfunctional relationships, even with their mothers or close relatives.  

Connect with Sharika:

Twitter: @SharikaSoal84

Divested Diary Website

Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."



Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition.

What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope.

Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed.

Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.

Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to Podcasts

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In this thought-provoking episode, host Sharika Soal delves into the complex reasons why many black women choose to date outside their race. She begins by sharing her own experiences, noting that even failed relationships with non-black men were less toxic than those with black men.

Soal goes on to discuss how the prevalence of "hood culture" among some black men shapes expectations for black women. She argues this leads to an assumption that black women must conform to a narrow definition of black femininity. She also takes issue with offensive language like the n-word and derogatory terms still used by some black men, even those who are educated.

The conversation then turns to financial expectations. Soal asserts that some black men see black women's role as suffering alongside them or providing primary financial support rather than being cared for as an equal partner. She contrasts this to her perception of relationship norms in other racial communities.

Soal also criticizes the tendency of some black men to police black women's appearance, saying this embarrassment stems from insecurity rather than care. She advocates for black women's freedom to simply be women without judgment.

Connect with Sharika:

Twitter: @SharikaSoal84

Divested Diary Website

Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."



Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition.

What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope.

Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed.

Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.

Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to Podcasts

Apple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher