The mental health issues resulting from the Covid pandemic and lockdown - effects on women

Amanda's son in 5th grade, doing zoom/online classes, school won't allow kids wear pajamas.  Amanda is upset and thinks son should be able to wear whatever he wants.  Is Amanda right?

Jerry is 70 and planning his funeral ahead of time.  He asked his brother and sister to speak words at his funeral if he goes before they do, but both told him no, because he has never been involved with their lives.  How should he handle this and how has this happened?

Meredith's in laws upset that she's not giving their son a middle name.  Does Meredith have the right to be upset over this?  Do the in-laws have a right to be upset?