Georgia's husband had her car painted for her birthday while she was away on a trip, without telling her.  He had the best intentions and thought she would love it, but Georgia hates it and doesn't know what to do or how to handle this with her husband. How does she handle this with her husband for the best possible result?

Jim's wife asks him for advice and his opinion on a subject or problem, but then always asks her parents and other friends after he's given her advice.  Jim wonders if she just doesn't care for his helpful advice, or if this is normal? How should he handle this?

Naomi's friend's personality and judgment is changing, he's going through dimentia.  She would like to still spend time with him and his wife, but he's prone to outbursts now.  How should Naomi handle this?

Karen's husband takes time off work all the time to go do things he enjoys, but she never takes time off, she's constantly doing all the house work and shuttling kids and dealing with the family.  She's now upset about this.  How does she address this with her husband?