Most people think they're choosing love from their soul. But when you look closer, they're choosing from their ego — the part of them that's trying to feel complete, validated, secure, or worthy.

In this episode, Joan breaks down the difference between ego love and soul love. She exposes what ego actually wants from relationship (completion, proof of worthiness, relief from loneliness) versus what your soul wants (evolution, truth, expansion). And she shows you why ego love always feels so urgent while soul love often feels uncomfortable.

This is a teaching episode that will help you identify which part of you is driving your relationship choices — and why it matters more than compatibility, chemistry, or connection.

If you've ever wondered why you keep choosing the same type of person, or why relationships that look perfect on paper feel empty in your body, this episode will show you the difference between loving from ego and loving from soul.

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