Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

Use this Method of Push and Pull to Get the Woman you WANT! (why this works!)

In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down what push and pull really means in dating and why this method works so powerfully when done correctly. Apollonia explains the core dynamics behind push and pull and how emotional balance—not chasing or withdrawing—creates attraction.

We explore the five upgraded formulas of high-value push and pull, how to properly compliment and disqualify a woman without lowering your value, and why many men fail by focusing on words instead of energy. Apollonia also explains what happens when push and pull is missing, and how that leads to loss of attraction and emotional disconnection.

Finally, we discuss why push and pull is about emotional presence, confidence, and self-control rather than manipulation or games. Apollonia shares real-life examples you can apply immediately to create attraction naturally and consistently.

If you've ever felt confused about when to lean in or pull back, this episode gives you clarity, confidence, and a healthier understanding of how attraction truly works.

Key points in this episode!

• 0:43 — What really happens when you don't use push and pull in dating

• 1:42 — What is the push-and-pull dynamic? Apollonia breaks it down

• 2:35 — The five upgraded formulas of high-value push and pull

• 3:26 — How to properly compliment and disqualify her (without losing attraction)

• 5:00 — Real-life examples of how to apply push and pull correctly

• 6:35 — Why push and pull is about energy, not words — Apollonia explains

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Understanding Dark Psychology of Women! (How to get any woman you want using this!)

In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down what dark psychology really means in dating and how subtle psychological triggers influence attraction. Apollonia explains the core dynamics behind emotional variability and why understanding these patterns can completely change the way women respond to you.

We explore why men who have female friends and strong social circles often appear more attractive, how mixed-gender environments elevate perceived value, and the powerful role emotional variability plays in maintaining interest. Apollonia also contrasts healthy push-and-pull with flatline behavior, helping you recognize what builds attraction versus what quietly kills it.

Finally, we discuss scarcity in dating, the Laws of Vision, and what actually happens when you become emotionally and energetically scarce in the right way. Apollonia shares how to apply these concepts without manipulation—so attraction grows naturally through confidence, clarity, and self-respect.

If you've ever felt stuck, overlooked, or unsure why attraction fades, this episode offers insight, strategy, and a deeper understanding of the psychology that drives modern dating!

Key points in this episode!

• 1:15 – What is Dark Psychology? Apollonia breaks down the core psychological triggers.
• 2:17 – Why women are often more attracted to men who have female friends.
• 3:33 – How mixed-gender social groups positively influence men's perceived value.
• 4:17 – Emotional Variability: what it is and why it matters in attraction.
• 5:36 – A real client example of Emotional Variability in action.
• 6:48 – What healthy push-and-pull actually looks like.
• 7:21 – Emotional Variability vs. Flatline behavior: key differences explained.
• 8:22 – The scarcity mindset in dating—and how it affects attraction.
• 9:26 – The Laws of Vision: why this principle is so powerful.
• 10:37 – What really happens when you become scarce.
• 11:16 – How to apply scarcity the right way.

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The Painful Experiences Men Go Through! (Make this not happen to you!)

In this episode Apollonia Ponti , we break down the painful emotional experiences many men face in dating—and how to ensure it doesn't happen to you. Apollonia explains why women pull away and what's truly happening beneath the surface when emotional distance appears.

We explore the difference between low-value and high-value responses, highlighting why chasing, overreacting, or losing focus often pushes women further away. You'll learn what a high-value man does when she pulls away, why keeping your purpose first is essential, and how emotional control strengthens attraction.

Finally, we discuss what happens when a high-value man pulls away and later returns—and why this shift often leads to greater respect, confidence, and stronger connection.

If you've ever felt confused or hurt when someone you care about suddenly becomes distant, this episode offers clarity, direction, and a healthier mindset for navigating modern dating.

Key points in this episode!

• 0:33 - The Painful Experiences Men Go Through! (Make this not happen to you!)
• 1:22 - Why do women pull away? Apollonia explains why.
• 2:12 - How most men respond to these situations. Low vs High value men.
• 3:03 - What high-value man does when she pulls away?
• 4:27 - They keep their purpose first.
• 5:16 - Why happens when a high-value man pulls away and comes back?

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5 Phrases That Make You Look Desperate! (She STOPPED texting)

In this episode, Apollonia Ponti breaks down five subtle phrases that instantly kill attraction, even when your intentions are good. From comments that create pressure to lines that reveal hidden insecurity, these phrases explain why women pull back, act distant, or stop responding altogether. Apollonia helps you understand how certain words shift the dynamic, signal neediness, and lower a woman's interest without you realizing it.

Apollonia explains why each phrase damages the connection, what it triggers emotionally in women, and how small adjustments in communication can completely change the way women respond to you. With clear guidance and real-world examples, this episode shows you how to communicate from a place of confidence, value, and grounded masculine energy.

If you want women to respect you more, stay attracted, and feel safe leaning into their feminine energy—rather than pulling away—this episode is for you!

Key points in this episode!

• 0:31 - She passes the soft no test, but you texted her, and she stops texting. What happened?!

• 1:08 - Why specific phrases kill attraction for women! Apollonia will break down which ones

• 1:31 - The first phrase.

• 2:22 - The second phrase

• 3:47 - The third phrase

• 4:22 - The fourth phase.

• 5:15 - The fifth phase.

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7 Questions That Unlock Her TRUE FEELINGS Instantly!

In this episode, Apollonia Ponti walks you through seven essential questions that can uncover emotional maturity, genuine attraction, and the dynamics of a healthy relationship. From understanding how you both feel during periods of silence, to recognizing lessons from past relationships, these questions help you see beyond surface-level interactions and get to the heart of emotional connection.

Apollonia explains why each question matters, what it reveals about both partners, and how your responses can strengthen trust, intimacy, and mutual respect. With practical guidance and real-world examples, this podcast equips you with the tools to navigate relationships with clarity, confidence, and authenticity.

If you want to understand your partner—or potential partner—on a deeper level, recognize subtle signals of attraction, and build a relationship based on respect rather than guessing games, this episode is for you!

Key points in this episode!

• 0:48 – The seven essential questions for emotional maturity

• 1:19 – A key question to ask: "How would we feel if we didn't communicate for several days?"

• 2:08 – What does a healthy relationship look like to you?

• 3:11 – A question that reveals genuine attraction

• 4:30 – How do you respond when someone says no or requests space?

• 6:07 – What did your last relationship teach you about yourself?

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"How to Know If She's Really Interested in 10 Seconds" (The Soft No Test)

In this episode, we dive into the subtle but powerful "Soft No Test" that many women use—often without even realizing it—to gauge a man's confidence and emotional stability. Apollonia Ponti will explain why this gentle form of pushback matters, what it reveals about your boundaries, and how your response determines whether she sees you as grounded and high-value or as insecure and needy.

With clear guidance and real-world examples, this podcast gives men a practical roadmap for recognizing the test, handling it with calm certainty, and building genuine attraction based on respect—not pressure or chasing. If you're ready to understand women's boundary-testing on a deeper level and show up with authentic confidence, this episode is for you!

Key points in this episode!

• 0:33 — Why She Gives You "Soft No's"
• 1:23 — What the Soft No Test Really Is!
• 1:50 — Example: When She Makes an Excuse Not to See You
• 2:46 — Example: When She's Actually Interested
• 3:54 — Interested vs. Uninterested Behavior
• 4:18 — What to Do When She Keeps Declining
• 4:31 — How the Soft No Test Works

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8 Ways Women Build Respect For A Man!

In this episode, Apollonia Ponti explores the real qualities that make a woman genuinely respect a man. She breaks down why purpose, self-awareness, emotional strength, and a well-built life matter far more than looks or charm.

Apollonia explains how a man's habits, relationships, and personal vision naturally shape the respect he receives—and why women sometimes challenge men as part of building trust. With clarity and honesty, she offers a grounded roadmap for men who want deeper connection and authentic admiration.

If you're ready to grow into the kind of man women respect effortlessly, this episode is for you!

Key points in this episode!

• 0:40 — Respect Comes From Who You Are, Not What You Demand
• 1:30 — Stop Hiding Online and Build a Real Life
• 1:48 — Get Clear on the Type of Woman You Want
• 3:00 — Know Your Strengths and Weaknesses
• 3:50 — Build Your Health and Wealth
• 4:29 — Create a Strong, High-Value Network
• 4:43 — How the "Two-Way Woman" Tests a Man's Strength
• 5:50 — Why She Challenges Your Opinions

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The Real Reason I Went Silent on YouTube! (Didn't Expect THIS)

In this heartfelt podcast, Apollonia Ponti opens up about her two-month break and the powerful lessons she's learned through the challenges of her second pregnancy, postpartum emotions, and navigating the complex balance of motherhood, marriage, friendships, and business. She shares how this deeply personal season reshaped her identity and taught her the strength found in stillness, surrender, and imperfection.

Far from a polished comeback, Apollonia reflects on the realities of life behind the scenes—what remodeling a new home revealed about letting go, how past betrayals reshaped her faith and friendships, and how motherhood expanded her purpose. She also reaffirms her mission to guide men toward healthy, lasting relationships rooted in confidence and clarity.

This podcast is a raw, intimate chapter in Apollonia's journey, and a powerful reminder that growth sometimes requires pause. If you're navigating transitions or seeking deeper alignment in your life and relationships, this message is for you!

Key points in this episode!

• 1:04 — Why did Apollonia disappear?
• 2:00 — What she did after taking a break from YouTube and her business.
• 3:02 — How her second pregnancy took a toll on her well-being.
• 4:21 — The lessons she learned about staying true to her goals.
• 5:52 — Understanding the habits of an overachiever.
• 6:24 — Finding new friendships and peace — and how she came to that place.
• 7:55 — Why you attract certain types of people and how to change that pattern.
• 9:08 — How taking a break helped her rediscover her strength and purpose.

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Why Women Leave Good Men! (Don't Let this Happen to You!)

In this episode of The Elevated Man Podcast, Apollonia Ponti dives into the real power behind walking away and how it transforms your dating life.

Many men fall into the trap of chasing women, making common mistakes, and confusing attention for attraction. Apollonia explains why walking away isn't about punishment—it's about setting boundaries, knowing your worth, and creating genuine attraction. You'll discover how women admire men who lead with confidence and clarity, and how to identify the type of woman who truly matches your values.

From understanding the mindset shifts that separate men who chase from men who attract, to learning practical steps for dating with intention, this episode provides the tools to build respect, purpose, and self-control in your relationships.

Whether you're single, dating, or recovering from a breakup, this episode will show you how to stop chasing and start attracting the right woman for you.

Key points in this episode!

• 0:41 – Why do you keep chasing women? Discover what really happens when you stop.
• 1:12 – Walking away isn't a trick—Apollonia breaks down why it works.
• 3:11 – Looking for real advice and support? Apollonia points you in the right direction.
• 4:26 – How to identify the type of woman you truly want.
• 5:08 – Common mistakes men make in dating—and how to avoid them.
• 6:20 – Why women admire men who set clear boundaries.
• 7:15 – Here's what happens when you actually walk away.
• 8:31 – Walking away isn't about punishment—Apollonia explains the real reason.

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Dating With Intention: What It Really Means To Be a High-Value Man!

In this episode of The Elevated Man Podcast, Apollonia Ponti breaks down what it truly means to date with intention and how to embody the mindset of a high-value man.

Most men say they want a great relationship — but few actually date with clarity, standards, and purpose. Instead, they fall into patterns of chasing validation, confusing lust for connection, or settling for women who don't match their values.

Apollonia reveals how to shift from passive, reactive dating into intentional attraction — where you choose from power, not neediness. You'll learn what defines a high-value man in today's dating world, and how to lead with self-respect, purpose, and emotional control.

Whether you're single, newly dating, or rebuilding after a breakup, this episode will help you understand the difference between men who chase women… and men who attract the right woman.

Key points in this episode!

• 0:31 - The episode begins with an overview of today's discussion on dating with purpose and self-awareness.
• 1:01 - Discover how dating with clear intentions can help you attract the woman who truly aligns with your values.
• 2:14 - Apollonia explains the difference between seeking validation and choosing alignment in your relationships.
• 3:09 - Learn how to join Apollonia's coaching and discovery program to transform your dating journey.
• 4:10 - Reflect on what truly defines a match for you—beyond surface-level attraction.
• 5:03 - Apollonia discusses the importance of understanding what you want in life and how this self-awareness applies to dating.
• 6:23 - Explore why women are drawn to men who embody both confidence and consistency.
• 7:08 - Ready to elevate your dating life? Book a discovery call with Apollonia to start your personal growth journey.
• 7:53 - Understand the key distinction between dating with genuine intention and approaching relationships from a place of neediness.
• 8:22 - Apollonia breaks down why confident men don't live in tension and how that mindset changes everything.
• 10:17 - Discover what truly happens when you start dating with clarity, purpose, and self-assurance.

What You'll Learn: What it actually means to date with intention (and why most men don't). How to identify your values and standards before dating. The real definition of a high-value man (it's not money or looks). The difference between masculine confidence and neediness. How to attract women who align with your vision and purpose. Listen if you're ready to:

Stop chasing validation and start choosing alignment Develop true masculine confidence and self-awareness Set clear standards that attract high-quality women Build relationships from purpose, not fear

Resources & Coaching:

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