When marriages fall apart
It requires constant work
Every marriage has its own problem
We all have things we are not happy about
Give and take
Reasons For Divorce
Marrying for the wrong reasons
Some are doomed from the start
Marriage should not be an escape or a solution to your problems
Coming into the marriage with baggage
Are you your own person?
You are not ready to be a spouse
Are you ready for marriage?
“And test the orphans [in their abilities] until they reach marriageable age. Then if you perceive in them sound judgement, release their property to them…”
Surah An Nisa 4:6
Infidelity
In over 1/3 of marriages, one or both partners admit to cheating
22% of men say that they've cheated on their significant other
14% of women admit to cheating on their significant other
36% of men and women admit to having an affair with a co-worker
17% of men and women admit to having an affair with a sister-in-law or brother-in-law
40% of the time online affairs turn into real life affairs
Why?
Fun
Lacking in their marriage
Spite
Almost all start off “innocently” and “casually”
Beware when you spending more time or feeling happier in the company of someone else than your spouse.
And she certainly determined [to seduce] him, and he would have inclined to her had he not seen the proof of his Lord. And thus [it was] that We should avert from him evil and immorality. Indeed, he was of Our chosen servants.
Surah Yusuf 12:24