Gino Pena shares his powerful journey from living a double life struggling with same-sex attraction to finding freedom, healing, and purpose. As a coach with Restored Ministries, Gino opens up about the transformation that happened when he stopped hiding and brought his struggles into the light.
He talks about living a double life that nobody knew about, what it was like to marry a woman after a past with same-sex activity, and the key moments in his life that led to His transformation and freedom.
Gino’s story shows how God can turn our deepest pain into profound purpose.
Key Moments
[01:28] How Gino discovered Restored through podcasts and initially sought help for marriage issues.
[10:36] The turning point: Gino hearing God say, "You're going to leave me next."
[14:47] Learning about God as Father - a transformative revelation.
[21:37] "Today you have become my son" - receiving the vision for four nations (men, youth, those struggling with homosexuality, and families).
[27:22] Bringing his past into marriage and the importance of due diligence.
[32:21] Psalm 51:10-13 as a life verse: "Then I will teach transgressors your ways."
[41:14] The moment in college when Gino first told his best friend about his struggle.
[43:19] The profound statement: "I'm thankful that I struggled with homosexuality" - because it led him to know God as Father.
Quotes
"To be vague is safe, but to be real is vulnerable - and when you're vulnerable, you lead."
"Everybody knows you, but who gets to know you?"
"I can't love myself and I can't love others unless I know He loves me first."
"My story isn't my story of shame, it's His story of grace on my life."
Resources
The Armory - Restored Ministries' comprehensive program for sexual integrity
Video curriculum
Group training calls with coaches like Gino
Biblical foundations for transformation
Community and accountability
Visit: restoredministries.ca/armory
Book mentions: Raising a Modern Day Knight & The Friendship Factor
Take Action
If you're struggling and want help, join The Armory at restoredministries.ca/armory. Experience the same transformational community and Biblical teaching that has impacted Gino's life and the lives of countless men around the world. Financial assistance is available if needed.
Restored Ministries helps men and women find freedom from sexual sin and walk in sexual integrity through Biblical teaching, community, and coaching.