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What is Structural Bypassing?
It's the "I'm fine." "Whatever you want." "Let's park that."
What if the most expensive words we speak are the ones we use to keep the peace?
The Masterclass:
Welcome back to The Empathy Lab. In Episode 08, Selena Tatum dissects the most dangerous shape in human conflict: The False Straight Line.
Drawing on non-Euclidean emotion and organizational geometry, we explain why rushing to an agreement doesn't actually resolve the conflict—it just compresses it.
We explore the phenomenon of "Deferred Collapse," where the fight you avoided today becomes the project failure (or the grocery aisle explosion) three months from now.
The Homework: Join the Ness Labs Tiny Experiment and audit your "Fines" this week.
Stop being polite.
Start being real.
(From the boardrooms of Toronto to the checkout line at the IGA in Montreal, it's time to stop paying the Inefficiency Tax.)
Subscribe, share, and stay anchored. 🌀
#TheEmpathyLab #OrganizationalArchitecture #ConflictResolution #EmergentStrategy #SomaticHealing
By Selena Tatum IslesWhat is Structural Bypassing?
It's the "I'm fine." "Whatever you want." "Let's park that."
What if the most expensive words we speak are the ones we use to keep the peace?
The Masterclass:
Welcome back to The Empathy Lab. In Episode 08, Selena Tatum dissects the most dangerous shape in human conflict: The False Straight Line.
Drawing on non-Euclidean emotion and organizational geometry, we explain why rushing to an agreement doesn't actually resolve the conflict—it just compresses it.
We explore the phenomenon of "Deferred Collapse," where the fight you avoided today becomes the project failure (or the grocery aisle explosion) three months from now.
The Homework: Join the Ness Labs Tiny Experiment and audit your "Fines" this week.
Stop being polite.
Start being real.
(From the boardrooms of Toronto to the checkout line at the IGA in Montreal, it's time to stop paying the Inefficiency Tax.)
Subscribe, share, and stay anchored. 🌀
#TheEmpathyLab #OrganizationalArchitecture #ConflictResolution #EmergentStrategy #SomaticHealing