This fear can hold you back in life. Instead of putting yourself out there. It's easier to have a Shoulda Coulda Woulda mentality. Than to put yourself out there and maybe have a feeling of being judged or a feeling of disliked or a feeling of awkwardness. Where does a Shoulda Coulda Woulda kind of life get you in life. You need to go for it and see where it gets you In life. You may be surprised.