We’re back! It’s season 3 and we’re stoked to bring you our fresh new episode - the final countdown to your wedding day. In this episode, Joe and I talk about what happens 1 month before your wedding, 1 week before your wedding, and 1 day before your wedding. Sit back, relax and get ready for… the final countdown!

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ONE MONTH TO GO:

• Collect your RSVPs: You should ideally have your final guest count 1 month out. Share this number with your rental company, caterer and anyone else who needs to know.
• Get your marriage license: This timing will differ in different states, so check with the state/country that you’re getting married.
• Final dress fitting: Get fitted, and do the alterations as needed.
• If you’re planning to write your own vows, give yourself the time and space to do it before the wedding day!
• Thank you speech: Just like your vows, don’t wait until the last minute to write your thank you speech. Spend time thinking about everyone who has helped you during your engagement. PRO TIP: Don’t forget to thank your parents!
• Create a wedding timeline (if you don’t have a wedding planner) that lists the following information: when is everyone arriving - vendors and guests, what is the flow of the day, when does the venue need to be fully cleaned up and empty? Put as much info as possible into this timeline so everyone knows where to be.
• Start working on your photo list - who do you want pictures with, what family combinations?
• Start working on your song list, too. What song do you want when you walk into the ceremony? What about the first dance? Think about these songs now because there are A LOT of great songs.

ONE WEEK TO GO:

• Pack your overnight bag (make sure you include your invitation suite for photos)
• Do a wardrobe check - do you have the right undergarments? Do your rental tuxes fit? Do you have socks?
• Break in your shoes so your feet don’t hurt! Joe’s counterpoint - don’t break in your shoes - they’ll look dirty for your photos. 
• Plan ahead and wrap all gifts for your wedding party and family.
• Pack your welcome bags now - don’t wait until the last minute.
• Hand off your ceremony and reception items to someone in charge - a wedding planner or someone else in charge.

ONE DAY TO GO:

• Do your wedding rehearsal. PRO TIP: Do it 2 days before so you have the day before your wedding to relax. Don’t forget to practice your kisses!!
• REST! Don’t drink too much, stay out of the sun, and try to stay rested and calm
• Write your vendor thank yous and pack their tips to hand off to your wedding planner or someone else in charge.
• Double check your attire - is everything ironed or steamed? Do you have access to a steamer if not? Don’t forget to think about bridesmaid dresses, too!
• Chill your champagne, and make sure you have glasses to toast. Cheers!

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