The first time you say no and mean it—you’ll think you’re a monster.

Because guilt isn’t always truth.Sometimes it’s just a system crashing.A pattern dying.

You were raised to believe:

* That love means saying yes

* That softness means silence

* That boundaries equal betrayal

So when you finally say:“No, I’m not doing that anymore,”your body might shake.But that’s not a sign to go back.It’s a sign you’re finally coming home.

🎧 This Bone Voice is for you if:

* You’re grieving the “nice girl” version of yourself

* You feel guilt after every boundary

* You’ve been called selfish, intense, or too much

* You’re finally saying no—and letting the chips fall

This is not the end of your softness.This is the start of your sovereignty.

🜃 If you’re walking through this boundary fire — you don’t have to do it alone

Unhinge Yourself is the full spiral of truth, boundaries, reclamation, and healing.

🔥 Learn more: Unhinge YourselfOr reply with “Sovereign” and I’ll send you the private link.

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