The Fly Girl Guide Podcast

I'm on my Drake flow: I'm upset.

Here's what I'm ranting about: keeping sane in the midst of a pandemic is a real struggle/where is our stimulus check?/congress was on a vacay as millions of Americans are out here starving/ Republicans suck musty balls/ we need to stop normalizing this mess.

This week really upset me and my homegirls. Here's what I'm ranting about: August Alsina x Jada Pinkett Smith/ Pop Smoke's posthumous debut album/ Kanye West running for President/Trump's incompetence/Attorney General Daniel Cameron throwing an engagement party but he can't arrest the officers who killed Breonna Taylor.

Interview with Joanna Jane, Economic Change Agent, Real Estate Investor (www.instagram.com/therealjoannajane). Part 3 of The Fly Girl Guide to a COVID-19 Glow Up Series. We talk having a spiritual mindset to finances/ what to do with your stimulus check/ getting a tribe together to buy a block.

Interview with Kelley Green, NYC Certified Life Coach + Success Coach (www.instagram.com/kelleygreen_).  Part 2 of The Fly Girl Guide to a COVID-19 Glow Up Series. We talk branding/finding peace and purpose during lockdown/praying for your man. 

Interview with Jessica Walker, founder of Baddie Glow (http://www.baddieglows.com). Part I of The Fly Girl Guide to a COVID-19 Glow Up. We talk skin care/ Jesus/ growing a business during a pandemic/ men who try to interrupt your grind.

You know, everything in life is a lesson and blessing.  I’m fresh from my trip to Los Angeles where I covered LA Fashion Week and I spoke to the youth congregation at Noel Jones’ City of Refuge church on living a purpose driven life.

My trip didn’t come without trials. When you do kingdom work, the devil will try to stop you.  Your goal is to work hard and keep going regardless.  What I am constantly learning:

1. Do you already

2. Keep the jokers out of the deck

3. Make Jesus your homeboy

TOPICS DISCUSSED IN THIS EPISODE:

I’m not adventurous, I just trust God (8:36)

You’re not curving me, you’re doing me a favor (17:02)

You have to just do you already (28:10)

Fly Carla Quotes:

Make it happen anyway! Stop worrying about the ifs, ands, or buts.

You do the work and watch God make the provisions.

Real recognizes fake.

• This is a book for my fly girls who are struggling in their search for purpose and happiness. Click here to purchase. 

This is not the time to be trapped by dogma. Have an independent thought. Own who you are. Don’t  be trapped by the results of other people’s thinking. In my latest podcast, I talk about the importance of having a mind of YOUR own. So what if your opinion isn’t popular. Think for yourself!

TOPICS DISCUSSED IN THIS EPISODE:

Do you even know why Remy Ma and Nicki are beefing? (5:23)

Are you living with the results of other people’s thinking? (14:39)

We put limits on ourselves. (27:22)

Tweet it! "God doesn't operate within our limits. We put limits on ourselves." 

Tweet it! "Following the crowd is easy. Going against the grain is harder."

• This is a book for my fly girls who are struggling in their search for purpose and happiness. Click here to purchase. 

I just got a unicorn tattoo because I’m special. I’m rare, unique and I am fearfully and wonderfully made. So many of us are too scared to be who God is calling us to be. Too many of us scared to be who we are. We have to realize who we are. We are fabulous. I live by Albert Einstein’s quote, “The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has ever been before.”

We all have a unicorn in us. We can be whoever whoever we want to be.

TOPICS DISCUSSED IN THIS EPISODE:

It sounds cliche but you really have to protect your vibe. (2:36)

Yass, Jesus, remove the jokers out of my deck.  (13:46)

Why don’t you just do you, already? (21:12)

Tweet it! “No one can do you more than you!”

Tweet it! “If I’m not doing the most then what am I doing?”

RESOURCES DISCUSSED IN THIS EPISODE:

Tears We Cannot Stop: A Sermon to White America by Michael Eric Dyson