In this episode, I get furiously curious with Steffan Moens from Sterling Oak Research & Investigations, a Canadian private investigator who spends his days tracking insurance fraud, infidelity, corporate sabotage, and even vetting political candidates.

We talk about how you actually become a PI, what surveillance really looks like, why he sometimes says “no” to clients, what he can and can’t legally access, how the dark web and AI are changing the game, and what all of this reveals about human nature, trust, and power.

Enjoy

-Kyle

https://sterlingoakinvestigations.com/

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*🎙 About The Show*

Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world.

From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table.

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🎙 *About The Show*

The Briefcase and the Barn is a weekly series of The Furiously Curious Show with business brains, barn vibes, and Christian roots. The conversations that shaped us most didn’t happen in boardrooms—they happened in barns, coffee shops, trucks, and around kitchen tables. That’s the spirit of this show.

Kyle & Gary, sit down, hit record, and go deep on the stuff that matters—faith, business, family, politics, culture—and crack a few jokes along the way.

New episodes every Wednesday!

*Chapters*

0:00 Chaos & Guest Appearance

3:49 Marriage Expectations

10:45 Devils & Demons

20:20 Genuine Faith & Young People

27:35 Your Biggest Battle?!

33:30 Debt & Buying a House

42:20 Christian School Bubble?

In this episode, I sit down with my friend and Mike Feenstra, a former dairy farmer who sold the farm and stepped into full-time ministry with Power to Change. We talk about what it really costs to follow Jesus in an affluent Western church, why money so easily becomes an idol, and how to think about business, generosity, and “Freedom 55” when eternity is real.

Mike shares how he went to church for 40 years without knowing how to clearly share the gospel, what finally changed, and why he now lives with the finish line in view—raising kids, fighting sin, choosing a church, and reading the Bible with eternity in mind. If you’ve ever felt the pull between comfort and calling, this conversation is for you.

Enjoy

-Kyle

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*🎙 About The Show*

Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world.

From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table.

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🎙 *About The Show*The Briefcase and the Barn is a weekly series of The Furiously Curious Show with business brains, barn vibes, and Christian roots. The conversations that shaped us most didn’t happen in boardrooms—they happened in barns, coffee shops, trucks, and around kitchen tables.

That’s the spirit of this show. Kyle & Gary, sit down, hit record, and go deep on the stuff that matters—faith, business, family, politics, culture—and crack a few jokes along the way.

New episodes every Wednesday!

*Chapters*

0:00 – Feedback

7:40 – Gambling

12:15 – Young Guys & Marriage

22:13 – Stimulus Checks

33:00 – Cost of Living

37:10 – People Pleasing VS Christ Pleasing

43:12 – Sacrificial Giving

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🎙 About The ShowThe Briefcase and the Barn is a weekly series of The Furiously Curious Show with business brains, barn vibes, and Christian roots. The conversations that shaped us most didn’t happen in boardrooms—they happened in barns, coffee shops, trucks, and around kitchen tables.

That’s the spirit of this show.Kyle & Gary, sit down, hit record, and go deep on the stuff that matters—faith, business, family, politics, culture—and crack a few jokes along the way.

New episodes every Wednesday!

If you're enjoying this content and would like to support the show, click the link below 👇

🤝 www.furiouslycurious.co/donate

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📞 Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?

Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045

Email: [email protected]

Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co

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🎙 About The Show

The Briefcase and the Barn is a weekly series of The Furiously Curious Show with business brains, barn vibes, and Christian roots. The conversations that shaped us most didn’t happen in boardrooms—they happened in barns, coffee shops, trucks, and around kitchen tables. That’s the spirit of this show.

Kyle & Gary, sit down, hit record, and go deep on the stuff that matters—faith, business, family, politics, culture—and crack a few jokes along the way.

New episodes every Wednesday!

In this raw and redemptive conversation, I sit down with Sharmen Kimbrough — counselor at the Marriage Recovery Center and founder of Live Found — to talk about how women can heal after being married to a religious "man”.

Sharmen shares her story of growing up under a controlling, legalistic father, marrying into the same pattern, and eventually finding freedom in Christ. Our conversation also digs into:

- How legalism and “obedience culture” breed spiritual abuse- Why emotionally immature men hide behind Scripture and authority

- What happens to a woman’s identity after years of control

- How genuine faith, surrender, and inner work lead to healing

- What biblical leadership and submission actually look like

If you’ve ever felt trapped in a “Christian” marriage that crushed your spirit — this episode is for you.

Enjoy

-Kyle---

*Sharmen Kimbrough Details:

*Website: Https://www.livefound.org

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LiveFoundinc

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/livefoundinc/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@livefound.org

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LiveFoundMRC

Website: https://Marriagerecoverycenter.comMRC

YouTube Playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzb_gedZa6y77GxO9TM64kIwHsqnEYtsG&si=_bKFfGSHqfrzbLRP

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*🎙 About The Show*

Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world.

From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table.

---*Social Media:

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Instagram: / furiouslycuriousco

---Do you know someone who would be a good guest for the podcast?

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Thanks for watching, and God bless.

If you're enjoying this content and would like to support the show, click the link below 👇

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📞 Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?

Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045

Email: [email protected]

Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co

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🎙 About The Show

The Briefcase and the Barn is a weekly series of The Furiously Curious Show with business brains, barn vibes, and Christian roots. The conversations that shaped us most didn’t happen in boardrooms—they happened in barns, coffee shops, trucks, and around kitchen tables. That’s the spirit of this show.

Kyle & Gary, sit down, hit record, and go deep on the stuff that matters—faith, business, family, politics, culture—and crack a few jokes along the way.

New episodes every Wednesday!

Support the Show Here 👇

🤝 www.furiouslycurious.co/donate

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📞 Interested in Kyle's Coaching, Recruiting, or Employment Opportunities?

Text Kyle: 1-604-703-9045

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Website: https://www.furiouslycurious.co

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🎙 About The ShowThe Briefcase and the Barn is a weekly series of The Furiously Curious Show with business brains, barn vibes, and Christian roots. The conversations that shaped us most didn’t happen in boardrooms—they happened in barns, coffee shops, trucks, and around kitchen tables.

That’s the spirit of this show.Kyle & Gary, sit down, hit record, and go deep on the stuff that matters—faith, business, family, politics, culture—and crack a few jokes along the way.

New episodes every Wednesday!

Dr. David Hawkins joins me to unpack one of the ugliest elephants in the sanctuary — emotionally immature and narcissistic men hiding behind faith and authority. We talk control masked as leadership, the psychology of “hopium,” and why so many Christian marriages quietly collapse under spiritual manipulation. This isn’t church-bashing — it’s truth-telling for men who actually want to grow up, take responsibility, and love their wives like Christ, not a dictator.

We get practical—why accepting influence matters, why “sorry” without change is empty, what real interventions look like, and how to do the work. It’s blunt, faith-aware, and unflinching—but aimed at healing, not shaming. Enjoy-Kyle

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*🎙 About The Show*

Kyle Van Ruitenburg gets Furiously Curious with honest, raw, and sometimes laugh-out-loud chats about the stories, beliefs, and worldviews that shape how people see the world.

From Business and Faith to Life and everything in between, no topic is off the table.

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Thanks for watching, and God bless.