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Siobhan catches up with her longtime friend Trey, one of the very first guests of Ducking Realitea. They dive into Trey’s journey through vet tech school—surgical rotations, field trips to horse farms, and the emotional realities of working with animals. Trey also shares why he almost retired from drag, how he found new community through the Alameda Contra Costa County Ducal Court, and why he’s running for Prince this year.

The conversation weaves through big life changes, chosen family, dating in the digital age, and what it really means to grow into yourself. Siobhan also shares stories from her recent travels across Europe and Saudi Arabia, and opens up about stepping into her next chapter—with Burning Man on the horizon and a lot on her mind.

It’s real talk about identity, healing, and learning to let yourself shine.

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