In this episode of The Feminist Mom Podcast, Erin sits down with Nancy Reddy, author of the forthcoming book The Good Mother Myth, which challenges the unrealistic expectations placed on mothers. Together, they discuss the cultural narratives that shape motherhood, the history of these ideals, and how we can create healthier, more equitable family dynamics. They explore the value of caregiving work, the importance of community, and why we need to let go of the "shoulds" that weigh us down.

Topics Discussed:

• The origins of The Good Mother Myth and Nancy’s inspiration for writing it

  
  



• The cultural expectations of motherhood and how they impact parents

  
  



• The value of caregiving work and paid care in today’s society

  
  



• Intensive mothering, attachment theory, and breaking free from societal “shoulds”

  
  



• How to seek help, build community support, and share parenting responsibilities

  
  



• Nancy’s reflections on her own early years of motherhood

  
  

Nancy Reddy is a writer, teacher, and author of The Good Mother Myth, coming January 21, 2025. She’s also the author of three poetry collections and has written for outlets such as Slate and Romper. Nancy teaches at Stockton University in New Jersey and leads writing workshops to inspire creativity and connection.

Learn more about Nancy and her work at https://www.nancyreddy.com/

Follow Nancy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nancy.o.reddy

Nancy’s newsletter Write More, Be Less Careful: https://nancyreddy.substack.com/

Purchase The Good Mother Myth here. 

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