When it comes to following Jesus most believers are taught a myth that implies that God is in the business of reigning down "W's" based off of how much we give in an offering, how much time we volunteer in serving the local church, how much we confess "the right stuff" in our prayer time, meeting a religious quota on social media, etc.

When it comes to God's kingdom aka the upside down kingdom, Real Winning looks a lot like losing!