Jesus & Stuff

The "Gray Area" of Purity Explained


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This might be the most honest conversation we’ve ever had.

In this episode, we open up about our real struggle with sexual sin — not just avoiding sex before marriage, but navigating all the messy gray areas Christian couples rarely talk about. From boundaries we crossed, to the long-term effects of lust, porn, and compromise, we’re sharing it all.

If you’ve ever asked, “How far is too far?” — this is for you.

Topics we dive into:

Setting boundaries that actually protect you

Why “not having sex” isn’t the whole story

Dealing with lust, porn, and private sin in a relationship

How shame creeps in through loopholes

Learning to flee temptation (1 Corinthians 6:18 NIV)

The power of confession and accountability

Why God’s way leads to deeper love, not just better behavior

Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married — purity is about more than sex. It’s about how you love, lead, and honor each other daily. This one’s vulnerable, biblical, and just straight-up necessary.


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Jesus & StuffBy Ross & Ava