The Great Noticing

The Great Noticing

By MaryAnn Means-Dufrene and Emily McAnellySociety & CultureRelationships
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The Great Noticing episodes

  • Sister, Sister: Next Steps for TGN

    Sisters MaryAnn Means-Dufrene and Emily McAnelly return to the mic after a long pause, diving into an open conversation about where they’ve been, how they’ve grown, and what’s next for The Great Noticing. From motherhood to mental health, discipline to body image, they unpack the layers of life with their signature honesty and warmth.

    Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn:

    00:00 Reconnecting After Time Apart
    05:37 Navigating Personal Struggles
    11:09 The Role of Discipline in Creativity
    16:54 The Journey of Self-Discovery
    22:23 Launching New Ventures
    33:01 Navigating Overwhelm and Emotional Signals
    39:12 Balancing Expectations and Reality
    45:03 Exploring Resistance and Personal Growth
    56:17 Creating a Supportive Environment for Children

    In this episode, MaryAnn and Emily reflect on two years of transformation—sharing what’s been hard, what’s been healing, and how they’ve each grown into new versions of themselves. They talk candidly about the emotional weight of motherhood, the pressure to perform, and the quiet strength it takes to keep showing up.

    From everyday messes to big identity shifts, the conversation uncovers what happens when you make space to slow down, speak honestly, and reconnect—with yourself, each other, and your purpose. Whether you’re in a season of rebuilding or just craving more real talk about life behind the scenes, this episode offers both comfort and connection.

    Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnn

    This episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.

    Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you!

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    1 hr 10 min
  • Balancing Ambition and Motherhood: A Lawyer’s Honest Journey

     Meet our guest, Jordan Rolfe Stimpson 

    She is a Fort Worth-based attorney, partner at Linebarger Goggan Blair & Sampson, LLP, and a seasoned advocate in both criminal and civil law. With a career that began in journalism and a passion for public service, Jordan brings a multidimensional view to balancing motherhood, law, and leadership.

    Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn:

    • 01:05 Welcome and Introduction
    • 01:54 Jordan's Legal Journey
    • 06:10 Saying Yes to Opportunities
    • 07:10 Changes in the Legal Profession
    • 09:36 Balancing Life and Career
    • 22:21 Morning Routines and Parenting
    • 27:19 Celebrity Encounters and High Fives
    • 28:22 Trash Bag Revelation
    • 30:49 Parenting Challenges and Joys
    • 32:19 Balancing Career and Family
    • 38:18 Father-Daughter Bonding
    • 48:16 Embracing Joy and Growth
    • 50:37 Final Thoughts and Farewell

    In this episode, Jordan shares how her early aspirations in journalism unexpectedly led her to the courtroom and how saying “yes” to opportunities shaped her dynamic career in public service and law. She opens up about her time at Good Morning America, speechwriting for the Mayor of Dallas, and working on high-stakes legal cases, all while cultivating presence and joy in her family life.

    Jordan also dives into the challenges and rewards of raising a strong-willed daughter, the evolution of the legal profession for women, and why being present—even during a toddler meltdown at Target—is her secret to staying grounded. With humor, honesty, and heart, this conversation is a must-listen for anyone trying to juggle ambition with everyday life.

    Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnn
    This episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.


     

    Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you!

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    Hanna Isul Website





    53 min
  • Why Local Elections Matter More Than You Think

    Meet our guest, Leah M. King. 

    She’s the President of the JPS Foundation, where she leads transformational fundraising efforts to support public healthcare in Tarrant County. Formerly CEO of United Way of Tarrant County, Leah is also an elected official, serving as president of the board of directors at the Tarrant Regional Water District. Her leadership spans nonprofit strategy, civic engagement, and public infrastructure. Leah lives in Fort Worth with her husband, Barry, and is a passionate advocate for systems that serve the people—and the power of showing up locally.

    Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn:

    • 01:09 Welcome to The Great Noticing Podcast
    • 01:16 Introducing Leah King: A Community Leader
    • 02:23 The Importance of Voter Turnout
    • 03:42 Local Elections and Civic Engagement
    • 06:17 The Role of the Water District
    • 07:29 Personal Anecdotes on Water Issues
    • 09:18 The Impact of Leadership Decisions
    • 16:35 Fort Worth: A Place Called Home
    • 24:10 Water Conservation Tips and Initiatives
    • 26:27 Reflecting on Historical Changes
    • 27:35 The Impact of Polarization
    • 29:51 Navigating Public Office
    • 32:48 Balancing Personal and Public Life
    • 35:01 Encouraging Community Engagement
    • 42:29 The Path to Leadership
    • 44:26 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


    In this episode, Leah King breaks down why voter turnout in local elections is staggeringly low—and why that needs to change. She reveals how only 10% of eligible voters can end up making decisions for the entire population, and unpacks how that civic disengagement plays out in real life, from unprepared infrastructure to water access crises. Leah shares stories from her time in public office and invites listeners to understand the direct, tangible impact of policies made at the local level.


    She also reflects on her own path into leadership, the unexpected joys and challenges of running for office, and how every woman—yes, even those juggling kids and careers—can find a role in shaping their communities. Whether it's joining a board or just showing up to vote, Leah makes a compelling case for everyday civic involvement....

    Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnn
    This episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.

    Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you!

    The Great Noticing Instagram

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    Collective Growth Website

    MaryAnn's LinkedIn

    Emily's LinkedIn

    Hanna Isul Website





    46 min
  • Building Success Without Burning Out: Lessons from Melissa & Jamey Ice

     Meet our guests, Melissa and Jamey Ice

    Melissa Ice is the founder and Executive Director of The Net, a nonprofit dedicated to supporting survivors of sex trafficking. She also co-founded The Worthy Co., a social enterprise providing job training and employment for trafficking survivors. Her leadership has earned her recognition as one of Fort Worth Inc.'s 400 Most Influential People.

    Jamey Ice is a serial entrepreneur and the founder of 6th Ave LLC, which includes 6th Ave Homes, a real estate and renovation company, and 6th Ave Storytelling, a brand strategy firm. A former musician turned business leader, Jamey has grown multiple ventures and was named Entrepreneur of the Year by Fort Worth Business Press.

    Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn:

    • 01:08 Welcome and Introductions
    • 01:57 Melissa on Slowing Down and Self-Care
    • 03:24 Balancing Work and Family
    • 08:01 Jamie on Entrepreneurship and Hustle Culture
    • 16:01 Parenting and Teaching Values
    • 24:40 Handling Children's Emotions and Responsibilities
    • 26:35 Teaching the Value of Money to Kids
    • 28:50 Challenges of Implementing Chore Systems
    • 31:32 Parenting Styles and Child Personalities
    • 33:22 Balancing Obedience and Independent Thinking
    • 35:32 Navigating Homework and School Rules
    • 36:19 Cultivating Leadership in Children
    • 38:49 Faith, Trust, and Parenting
    • 41:46 Reflecting on Parenting and Legacy
    • 44:11 Conclusion and Future Conversations


    In this episode, Melissa shares the lessons she’s learned from running The Net and The Worthy Co., shedding light on the toll that mission-driven work can take. Jamey, a serial entrepreneur behind 6th Ave Homes and 6th Ave Storytelling, reflects on the balance between ambition and sustainability—both in business and at home. Together, they discuss parenting, faith, and why embracing limitations is the key to long-term success.

    Tune in to discover:

    ✔ Why success doesn’t have to mean burnout

    ✔ How to navigate leadership and family life without losing yourself

    ✔ The fine line between hustle and sustainability

    ✔ Parenting with intention: balancing structure with independence

    Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnn
    This episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.


     

    Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you!

    The Great Noticing Instagram

    Collective Growth Instagram

    Collective Growth Website

    MaryAnn's LinkedIn

    Emily's LinkedIn

    Hanna Isul Website





    48 min
  • Disney Cruise Diaries: What No One Tells You Before You Book

     Sisters MaryAnn Means-Dufrene and Emily McAnelly, share their unfiltered review of their recent Disney cruise adventure. From overcrowded pools to overpriced princess makeovers, they unpack the highs, lows, and unexpected life lessons discovered along the way.

    Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn:

    • 00:28 Welcome and Introduction
    • 00:40 Reflecting on the Disney Cruise Experience
    • 03:13 The Ugly Side of the Cruise
    • 15:47 The Bad and the Good
    • 18:52 Cost Breakdown and Final Thoughts
    • 25:08 The Disney World Story from Childhood
    • 25:59 The Fundraising Effort
    • 27:06 The Disappointment and Room Redecoration
    • 29:18 Reflecting on the Disney World Experience
    • 30:38 Healing and Moving Forward
    • 40:48 Parenting Challenges and Reflections
    • 43:16 Disney Cruise Review
    • 49:53 Final Thoughts and Wrap-Up

    In this episode, MaryAnn and Emily dive into the reality of family vacations — the chaos, the comedy, and the cash drain. They break down their full Disney cruise experience, comparing concierge perks to sardine-class cabins, and revealing what it all really cost. Along the way, they reflect on the emotional baggage that sneaks into family trips — from childhood money wounds to navigating public meltdowns.

    The sisters also open up about the surprising lessons they noticed — like how vacations become a mirror for our inner lives, how our parenting styles show up under pressure, and why even the messiest memories are worth treasuring. Whether you're considering a Disney cruise or just need a laugh-filled reality check on family travel, this episode delivers honesty, humor, and heart.


    Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnn


    This episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.


     

    Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you!

    The Great Noticing Instagram

    Collective Growth Instagram

    Collective Growth Website

    MaryAnn's LinkedIn

    Emily's LinkedIn

    Hanna Isul Website





    55 min
  • The Impact of Philanthropy: How Giving Shapes Our Cities with Rose Bradshaw

    Meet our guest, Rose Bradshaw

    With a 35-year career spanning North Texas, Chicago, New York, and San Francisco, Rose Bradshaw has helped philanthropists, corporations, and foundations maximize their impact. As President and CEO of the North Texas Community Foundation, she leads initiatives to strengthen communities through strategic giving and investment.

    Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn:

    • 01:04 Introduction and Guest Welcome
    • 01:49 Rose Bradshaw's Work and Observations
    • 04:11 Challenges and Opportunities in Philanthropy
    • 07:41 Impact of Legislation on Nonprofits
    • 13:18 Trends in Charitable Giving
    • 21:25 Corporate Philanthropy and Community Impact
    • 24:32 A New School and Community Support
    • 24:56 Corporate Philanthropy and Community Engagement
    • 26:14 Best Practices for Starting Philanthropic Programs
    • 27:58 The Unique Culture of Giving in Fort Worth
    • 29:10 Personal Stories and Reflections on Fort Worth
    • 33:20 Raising Grateful and Empathetic Children
    • 37:33 Lessons from Parents and Personal Growth
    • 39:56 Final Thoughts and Reflections


    In this episode, Rose shares what she’s noticing in the rapidly growing North Texas region—from challenges in public education and affordable housing to the importance of flexible, dynamic solutions in community philanthropy. She talks about how effective philanthropy requires strong collaboration between nonprofits, donors, and local governments and how Fort Worth’s unique culture of generosity is shaping innovative approaches to giving.


    Tune in to explore:

    ✅How philanthropy is shaping the rapid growth of Fort Worth & North Texas

    ✅The power of corporate giving and community investment

    ✅How trends in charitable giving are shifting across generations

    ✅The role of nonprofits in addressing affordable housing, education, and local infrastructure

    ✅Personal stories on leadership, legacy, and finding purpose in giving back

    Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnn
    This episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.


     

    Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you!

    The Great Noticing Instagram

    Collective Growth Instagram

    Collective Growth Website

    MaryAnn's LinkedIn

    Emily's LinkedIn

    Hanna Isul Website





    44 min
  • Unboxing Yourself: Letting Go of Society’s Labels with Dr. Carly Buxton

    Meet Dr. Carly Buxton, the founder of Parentswarm, a startup connecting parents to expert support. She also teaches business at the University of Richmond and writes across multiple genres, including historical fiction and children's books. Her work highlights the power of nuanced thinking and embracing a multifaceted life.


    Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn:

    • 00:00 Welcome and Introductions
    • 01:17 Balancing Multiple Roles
    • 02:31 Societal Expectations and Personal Identity
    • 04:14 Challenges of Stay-at-Home Parenting
    • 06:36 Navigating Indecision and Change
    • 11:13 Parenting Neurodiverse Children
    • 17:47 Finding Joy and Creativity
    • 21:45 Engaging Conversations and Authenticity
    • 25:50 Teaching Principles: Asking the Right Questions
    • 26:27 Encouraging Nuanced Thinking in Students
    • 28:34 Designing Effective Learning Tools
    • 29:34 The Importance of Analog Thinking
    • 30:26 Balancing Personal and Professional Life
    • 34:33 The Journey to Becoming a Flight Attendant
    • 40:55 The Value of De-Technologizing
    • 44:42 Future Plans and Aspirations
    • 46:36 Closing Thoughts and Reflections


    In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Carly Buxton—a historian, entrepreneur, and user research strategist—who challenges the rigid labels society places on us. From academia to business, from writing to parenting, Carly shares how embracing multiple passions has shaped her life.

    In this conversation, we explore:

    ✅ The struggle of being defined by a single role or identity

    ✅ The pressure to have a "perfect" answer when asked, "What do you do?"

    ✅ How to navigate major life transitions with flexibility and confidence

    ✅ The power of curiosity, nuance, and stepping outside societal expectations

    Hosts: Emily McAnelly & MaryAnn Means-Dufresne

    This episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.


     

    Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you!

    The Great Noticing Instagram

    Collective Growth Instagram

    Collective Growth Website

    MaryAnn's LinkedIn

    Emily's LinkedIn

    Hanna Isul Website





    51 min
  • Healing Through Skincare: A Journey with Myong Chong

    Meet Myong Chong, a skincare pioneer and healer. As the founder and owner of Hanna Isul™ Skin Therapy, Myong has spent over 30 years redefining skincare through her innovative, holistic approach. Her groundbreaking products, including U.S.-patented formulas, focus on true skin transformation—going beyond surface-level beauty to deeper healing and rejuvenation.


    Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn:

    • 00:28 Introduction and Guest Welcome
    • 00:49 The Journey of Skin Care
    • 02:05 Mind-Body Connection in Skin Health
    • 05:08 Personal Stories and Healing
    • 06:39 The Philosophy of Beauty and Faith
    • 10:12 Challenges and Triumphs in Skin Care
    • 13:24 Innovations and Patents
    • 23:05 Global Impact and Future Goals
    • 25:40 Balancing Business and Family
    • 26:26 Stem Cell Technology Journey
    • 26:58 Formulation Challenges and Success
    • 27:50 Collaborations and Breakthroughs
    • 32:22 Community Service and Leadership
    • 33:25 Cultural Integration and Education
    • 36:50 Reflections on American Culture
    • 41:36 The Myeongchung Foundation
    • 42:30 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


    In this episode...

    In this episode, Myong shares her inspiring journey from struggling with teenage acne to becoming a world-renowned aesthetician and skincare formulator. She discusses how skin health is deeply intertwined with our diet, emotions, and even spiritual well-being. Myong also dives into her work with stem cell technology, her collaborations with top dermatologists, and the philosophy that beautiful skin begins with a healthy soul. Plus, she reveals how her faith and mission to heal others have shaped her career and impact.

    🎧 Tune in to discover:
    ✔️ Why skincare is more than just products—it’s a mind-body connection.
    ✔️ How stress, diet, and emotions show up on your skin.
    ✔️ The power of natural healing in skincare science.
    ✔️ Myong’s journey to developing patented skincare innovations.
    ✔️ The incredible link between faith, beauty, and self-care.

    Episode Hosts: Emily and MaryAnn
    This episode of The Great Noticing is hosted by sisters Emily and MaryAnn, bringing you candid conversations about navigating motherhood, relationships, and life’s beautiful chaos. With Emily’s humor and MaryAnn’s practical advice, we’re here to help you laugh, reflect, and tackle the challenges of modern womanhood.

    Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you!

    The Great Noticing Instagram

    Collective Growth Instagram

    Collective Growth Website

    MaryAnn's LinkedIn

    Emily's LinkedIn

    Hanna Isul Website





    46 min
  • The One Shift That Can Help You Avoid Burnout – from a CFO & Mom Sarah Webb

    Sarah Elliott Webb, founder of Webb CFO, knows firsthand the challenges of running a business while balancing family life. As a financial expert and entrepreneur, she shares how business owners can navigate uncertainty, build financial literacy, and avoid burnout by making small but impactful shifts in their habits.

    In this episode, Sarah opens up about the pressures business owners face, especially in times of economic uncertainty. She discusses how financial planning, strategic hiring decisions, and prioritizing personal well-being can create sustainable success. Sarah also dives into work-life balance, the importance of setting boundaries, and the lessons she’s teaching her kids about financial responsibility.

    Whether you're an entrepreneur, a busy parent, or both, this conversation is filled with relatable insights and practical strategies to help you thrive without sacrificing your well-being.

    🎧 Listen now and let us know: What’s one shift you can make to avoid burnout?

    Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn:

    • 00:28 Welcome to The Great Noticing
    • 00:46 Introducing Sarah Elliott Webb and Web CFO
    • 01:25 Current Business Climate and Strategic Planning
    • 02:15 Hiring Challenges and Flexible Workforce Solutions
    • 03:52 The Journey of Web CFO
    • 04:55 Building a Business and Leadership Insights
    • 08:00 The Importance of Experimentation and Trusting Your Gut
    • 17:22 Balancing Work and Personal Life
    • 20:11 Balancing Work and Family Time
    • 21:25 Navigating Teen Independence
    • 22:03 Managing Kids' Technology Use
    • 23:36 Social Media Rules for Teens
    • 25:34 Teaching Financial Literacy to Kids
    • 27:40 Encouraging Smart Spending Habits
    • 30:35 Handling Toddler Tantrums
    • 32:13 Importance of Sleep and Rest
    • 33:47 Sustaining Energy with Small Habits
    • 35:45 Reflecting on Parenting and Childhood
    • 36:26 Conclusion and Future Plans

    Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you!

    The Great Noticing Instagram

    Collective Growth Instagram

    Collective Growth Website

    MaryAnn's LinkedIn

    Emily's LinkedIn

    Hanna Isul Website





    40 min
  • What Do You Do For Fun? with Ashton Theiss

    Summary 

    In this engaging conversation, Ashton Theiss, founder of the Ashton Agency, shares her journey of building a successful real estate brokerage from the ground up. She reflects on the challenges faced during the pandemic, the importance of creating a unique company culture, and her commitment to quality service in an industry often criticized for its lack of standards. Ashton discusses her transition from a leader to an executive role, emphasizing the significance of collaboration, mentorship, and maintaining a strong company culture as they look toward future growth and opportunities. In this conversation, Ashton Theiss discusses the challenges and strategies involved in leading a growing real estate business. She emphasizes the importance of balancing performance standards with company culture, adapting to economic shifts, and diversifying business strategies. Ashton also reflects on her journey as a female leader in a male-dominated industry, the significance of building a strong reputation, and the joy of celebrating milestones with her team.

    Takeaways

    • Ashton started her brokerage during the pandemic, which posed unique challenges.
    • The journey of building a business involves reflection and gratitude.
    • Creating a family-like culture is essential for team success.
    • Quality over quantity is a guiding principle for the Ashton Agency.
    • Navigating challenges leads to personal and professional growth.
    • Entering the development side of real estate opened new opportunities.
    • The real estate industry needs higher standards for entry and training.
    • Collaboration and mentorship are key to success in real estate.
    • Ashton emphasizes the importance of maintaining a strong company culture.
    • The shift from leader to executive involves strategic planning and growth. Performance metrics have become stricter as the company grows.
    • Balancing culture and performance is essential for success.
    • Economic shifts can present opportunities for growth.
    • Diversification in business strategies is key to resilience.
    • Building relationships is crucial for sustainable success.
    • Female leaders face unique challenges in male-dominated industries.
    • Reputation is built over time through intentionality and risk-taking.
    • Celebrating milestones fosters a positive company culture.
    • Leadership involves guiding others from good to great.
    • It's important to be honest about the realities of entrepreneurship.

    Thank you for noticing with us! We would love to connect with you!

    The Great Noticing Instagram

    Collective Growth Instagram

    Collective Growth Website

    MaryAnn's LinkedIn

    Emily's LinkedIn

    Hanna Isul Website





    53 min

About The Great Noticing

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In The Great Noticing, sisters and working moms MaryAnn and Emily explore how the simple act of noticing–that is, observing our own experience non-judgmentally, can enable personal and professional…