In this episode of The Grind: Road to Success podcast, host Zak Krysak sits down with San Jose Sharks Assistant Coach and former NHL player Jeff Ulmer. Most professional athletes never reach 1,000 games, yet Jeff's journey defies expectations. From a tiny village in Saskatchewan to over 19 years playing across 13 countries and coaching in the NHL, Jeff’s story reveals a blueprint for resilience, adaptability, and relentless pursuit of excellence. What separates the good from the great isn’t just talent — it’s mindset, discipline, and a willingness to embrace change.
Jeff shares how he turned setbacks into stepping stones, balancing a long overseas career with a clear vision for life after hockey. He discusses the mental skills learned through decades of constant change, from playing under 30 coaches to mastering multiple languages, and how those experiences built a unique perspective as an NHL assistant coach. You’ll discover practical insights on handling rejection, staying motivated long-term, and the importance of mental toughness in peak performance.
Perfect for athletes, parents, and coaches alike, this episode unpacks how the world’s top performers cultivate the habits that sustain them through injury, failure, and relentless competition. Jeff’s journey proves that understanding your own resilience can unlock higher levels of performance—whether you’re aiming for the NHL or simply striving to be the best version of yourself.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to the Grind Road to Success Podcast
02:00 Jeff Ulmer's Unique Hockey Journey
05:50 Overcoming Adversity and Rejection
09:14 Building Self-Belief and Confidence
15:10 Mental Resilience and Longevity in Sports
19:46 The Importance of Multi-Sport Participation
27:32 Finding Purpose and Internal Motivation
30:26 Adapting to Change and Coaching Philosophy
36:57 Communication and Support for Athletes
43:24 Parental Guidance and Conversations with Young Athletes
43:53 Navigating Parent-Athlete Conversations
47:23 Quick Hits: Fun Insights and Personal Stories
58:55 The Importance of Mindset in Sports
01:02:10 Developing Young Athletes: Insights from Experience
01:07:23 The Key Traits of Elite Athletes
01:11:43 Lessons from a Career: Sharing Knowledge with Young Players
01:14:32 Preparing for Life After Sports
01:18:20 Reflecting on the Journey: Advice to My Younger Self
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