Parenting Relief

The Guilt Cycle: Why You Feel Like You’re Not Doing Enough


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If you constantly feel like you’re not doing enough as a parent, you are not alone.

In this episode of Parenting Relief, Mar De Carlo explores the guilt cycle many parents live with: why it happens, why it gets stuck, and how to begin transforming it with compassion, awareness, practical tools, and a whole-body approach.

This episode includes:

  • the difference between guilt and shame

  • what top psychologists and therapists often recommend

  • how self-compassion, mindfulness, and repair can interrupt the cycle

  • somatic and holistic tools to regulate the nervous system

  • daily practices to help you stop living under constant internal pressure

Research suggests that self-compassion and mindfulness are associated with lower parenting stress, lower guilt and shame, and more positive parenting practices.

Connect with Mar:
Instagram: @mar_decarlo and @parentinghealthinstitute
Website: https://parentinghealthinstitute.com/

Books:
Awakening Through Sleep
2026: A Compassionate Reset for Parents
When Parenting Hurts (coming soon)

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https://mar-de-carlo-official-store.myshopify.com/


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• Integrative Adult Sleep Coach
• Holistic Pregnancy & Child Sleep Consultant
• Holistic Children & Teen Sleep Coach
• Holistic Pre-Postnatal Nutrition Coach
• Holistic Pregnancy & Postpartum Educator
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Learn more at: https://parentinghealthinstitute.com/

Disclaimer

This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice. Please seek individualized support from a qualified professional when needed. Any grounding or breathing practices shared in this episode should not be done while driving, operating machinery, or doing activities requiring full attention.

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Parenting ReliefBy Mar De Carlo