The Hard Or Soft Show

By The Hard Or Soft Show

Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partn... more

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FAQs about The Hard Or Soft Show:

How many episodes does The Hard Or Soft Show have?

The podcast currently has 283 episodes available.

The Hard Or Soft Show episodes:

September 10, 2025 301. Sex Down South With Tia And Marla
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This week Tahoe and Loon travel down to the Sex Down South convention in Atlanta and sit with the founders Tia and Marla to discuss how they met and blossomed some pretty amazing kickbacks into the only all black sex positive convention that Sex Down South is today. We discuss some of the NSFW happenings at the convention, the seminars that gave Tahoe some deep introsection about himself and his feelings on being a Cishet black man in a queer and female centered space. This was such a great conversation! We look forward to seeing you all next year at Sex Down South! ENJOY!!

Socials
Join the sex down south community and buy tickets for Sex Down South 2026 at SexDownSouth.com
and follow them at @SDSCon on Instagram

Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

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Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
...more
1h 1min
September 03, 2025 300. You Cant Just Date For The Sake Of Dating Anymore
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This week the guys get together for a dudecast as they talk ppl who do the most to "market" their relationship on social media, tahoe and Loon revisit their argument in last weeks episode, men adjusting the way they speak to women and around women, the reason why men dont spend as much on women that have money vs how they spend on women that dont have money, Yesssterday getting put on a performance enhancement plan and more! ENJOY!!

Socials:

Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

Ads:
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Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off the LoadBoost, Soaking Wet, and Drive Boost products!

GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW

Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)

Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
...more
2h 8min
August 27, 2025 299. What Do You Mean You Had A Train Ran On You???
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This week we talk when your friend finds out that your a freak, when to tell somebody about your freaky side, how much have you spent on your toy collection, a guy finds out about his girlfriends freaky past, remembering your favorite secks partner, can you teach someone to be your best partner ever, cuffing season is here and MORE..ENJOY!!

Socials:

Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram and Twitter

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

Ads:
LOADBOOST
Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off the LoadBoost, Soaking Wet, and Drive Boost products!

GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW

Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)

Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
...more
1h 47min
August 20, 2025 298. K**lin Rodney From The Back
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This week the crew men having no rizz (not knowing how to talk to women), Tahoe says he is jealous of guys who have a lot of game, straight men attending a "bate session", Loon turns up at the play party, Courtney makes an admission, a guy has an interesting experience with a trans man, a story about a male threesum, Courtneys new audio book is loading, being in a sexless relationship, telling your friend that you saw their ex on a date, and MORE!!! ENJOY!!!!

Socials:

Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram and Twitter

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

Ads:
LOADBOOST
Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off the LoadBoost, Soaking Wet, and Drive Boost products!

GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW

Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)

Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
...more
2h 5min
August 12, 2025 297a. My Marriage Is Over because of Secks Parties? (Reuploaded)
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This week the crew welcome Loons friend Aj to talk Courtneys chances at actually "getting some" before the summer is over, having secks with your friends in the house, Tahoes story about stalking his ex, some really cringy stories about bad past experiences, how long after women put they booty on you do you take to start the action up, somebody wants to be Trapped in Tahoes basement, and a young lady writes into the show about her husband wanting to leave the marriage so he can go to secks parties? ENJOY!!

Socials:
AJ
@EverybodyHatesAJ

Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram and Twitter

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

Ads:
LOADBOOST
Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off the LoadBoost, Soaking Wet, and Drive Boost products!

GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW

Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)

Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
...more
2h 25min
August 06, 2025 297. My Marriage Is Over because of Secks Parties?
Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!

This week the crew welcome Loons friend Aj to talk Courtneys chances at actually "getting some" before the summer is over, having secks with your friends in the house, Tahoes story about stalking his ex, some really cringy stories about bad past experiences, how long after women put they booty on you do you take to start the action up, somebody wants to be Trapped in Tahoes basement, and a young lady writes into the show about her husband wanting to leave the marriage so he can go to secks parties? ENJOY!!

Socials:
AJ
@EverybodyHatesAJ

Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram and Twitter

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

Ads:
LOADBOOST
Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off the LoadBoost, Soaking Wet, and Drive Boost products!

GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW

Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)

Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
...more
2h 25min
July 30, 2025 296. I Let Her Ride Me Around The House
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This week Tahoe sits with Eli Daniels better known as The Naked Trumpeter to talk his experience at the latest play party, using his trumpet on his subjects, his use of electroplay, being fetishized as a black man from ppl of different cultures, why he describes himself as a ho and what being a ho means to him and his upcomibg involvement in the Sex Down South expo in Atlanta this coming fall, then we give a snippet of episode two of For The Love of Yesterday! ENJOY!!

Socials:

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Eli
@EliDaniel711 on Instagram
@TheNakedTrumpeter on Twitter

Yesssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Krystale
@YourGirl_Krystalyn on all social media platforms

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

Ads:
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW

Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)

Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
...more
1h 27min
July 23, 2025 295. Show Me What That Neck Do
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This week the crew celebrate hitting 100,000 Followers on Instagram as we talk getting/giving the best neck of your life, Courtneys summer going better than planned, waiting too long to actually set up a date after you meet someone, how to teach a man the stroke that you like, is there such a thing as too many bodies, how much of your person you really want to know, a person coming into Loons house with the wrong type of protection, different role play scenarios, Yesssterdays unlocked a new kink, our upcoming play party THIS weekend 7/26 and more!!! ENJOY!!!

Fill out our vetting form at https://www.thehardorsoftshow.com/vetting-form to come to our play party this saturday 7/26

Socials:
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram and Twitter

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

Ads:
LOADBOOST
Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off the LoadBoost, Soaking Wet, and Drive Boost products!

GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW

Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)

Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
...more
2h 23min
July 16, 2025 294. Eat My A$$ Until I Collapse Feat @Stassy.Banks
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This week the team wecomes the incomparable @Stassy.Banks to talk being with someone that reflected our parents habits, an anal jingle and how they feel about back door action, Stassy being kinda Bi but kinda not, being in a primary lesbian relationship that includes men and the positive and negative dynamics that come with it, dealing with crazy ppl and why the sex is so good, The mechanics of scissoring, body image and how it effects a persons sexual confidence, what makes you freaky and more... ENJOY!!!

Socials
Stassy
@Stassy.Banks on all streaming platfroms

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV on Twitter, Instagram and TikTok

Loon
@KingLoonThe1st on Instagram

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free at Patreon.com/TheHardOrSoftShow

Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

Ads:
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW

Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 15% off)

Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecvwF2Wd88xtRy5caLtEtQ?view_as=subscriber

Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram & Twitter at @HardOrSoftPod
...more
2h 33min
July 08, 2025 293. The Best Of The Breasts Feat Barry Loves Boobs
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This week Tahoe, Loon and Yesssterday sit with Barry, Essence, Maya and Erica to talk mens love for the boobs, things men do to stop themselves from climaxing too quickly, when a woman was too freaky for them, Boob Play - the things women do with the boobs to turn men on, men who are way too freaky for the girls, how Barry created the Barry Loves Boobs movement, and so much more!! ENJOY!!!

Socials
Barry
@TheBarryLovesShow on Instagram
@BarryLovesBoobs on Twitter

Erica
@OnlineErica on all social media platforms

Essence
@Anyaithesaiyan on all social media platforms

Maya
@OohhMayaGodd on all social media platforms

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV on Twitter, Instagram and TikTok

Loon
@KingLoonThe1st on Instagram

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free at Patreon.com/TheHardOrSoftShow

Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

Ads:
LOADBOOST
Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off the LoadBoost, Soaking Wet, and Drive Boost products!

GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW

Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 15% off)

Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecvwF2Wd88xtRy5caLtEtQ?view_as=subscriber

Email us at [email protected] and send us messages on Instagram & Twitter at @HardOrSoftPod
...more
2h 30min

FAQs about The Hard Or Soft Show:

How many episodes does The Hard Or Soft Show have?

The podcast currently has 283 episodes available.

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