Divorce isn’t about winning or being innocent—it’s about how you show up for your kids. No judge, lawyer, or therapist can make co-parenting work. Only parents can choose peace. Keep fighting, and you risk losing your kids’ trust. Choose differently—for them.

Why it’s important:In Earned, Not Given, I share how divorce stripped life down to the basics—and how co-parenting wasn’t something a court could fix. These stories matter because too many parents believe legal battles will create peace, when the truth is only parents themselves can choose it. Kids deserve stability, and trust is fragile—it can take years to rebuild once it’s broken.

📖 Earned, Not Given is coming soon.

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