One of the biggest destroyers of the home is anger. Anger builds layers and layers of devaluing the people we should value the most. Harsh words spoken out of anger can be forgiven, but it can take lots of time for healing from those words. This is because words pierce through the most tenderest places of the heart. When we realize the heart can be easily bruised and broken, then we are more intentional about what words we choose to say and how we say them. Why would we want to break the heart of the very ones that trust us to love them?