We used to marry to build a life together; now, we are told we must be "finished products" before we even start. In this episode, we expose the "Psychological Barrier to Entry"—the modern belief that you must be trauma-free, securely attached, and emotionally optimized before you are worthy of love. We dive deep into the data behind the "Capstone Marriage," the weaponization of "therapy speak" in dating, and how the endless "healing phase" has inadvertently created a generation that is too self-aware to commit.