"The Women Everyone Projects Onto—And How to Stop Rescuing"

Some women attract admiration. Others attract projection.

In this episode, Joan explores the two "heretic" archetypes—the 5/1 and 5/2—and why everyone sees them as the solution to their problems. These are the women who magnetize people who need fixing, who carry expectations they never asked for, and who must learn the difference between leading and rescuing.

If you've ever felt like people fall in love with who they THINK you are instead of who you actually are, this episode will show you how to reclaim your truth from the projection field.

Key Concepts:

• Line 5: The Heretic - the projection screen
• 5/1: The Magnetic Mentor - tries to FIX the projection through rescuing
• 5/2: The Mystic in the Tower - tries to HIDE from the projection through mystery

The Paradox: Both are magnetic, but people fall in love with who they THINK they are, not who they actually are. The 5/1 exhausts herself mentoring. The 5/2 exhausts herself hiding.

Reflection Questions:

1. Do I try to fix the projection (5/1) or hide from it (5/2)?
2. Am I dating someone who needs me to rescue them or someone who wants to know me?
3. Where am I performing for a projection instead of living in my truth?
4. What would change if I stopped being responsible for what others project onto me?

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