In this episode of Mind Beyond the Mission, host Laryssa Lamrock is joined by guest co-host Tarik Kadri and special guest Guy Dallaire for a conversation about the impacts and complexities of vicarious trauma and intergenerational trauma among military and Veteran Families. Guy Dallaire was born into a multigenerational military Family — both his father and grandfather served in the Canadian Armed Forces. Guy served in both the Reserve and Regular Forces until he was medically released with posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in 2020. He is currently researching the impacts of vicarious trauma on adult children of Veterans and first responders.

Guy reflects on how his upbringing in a military Family and his father's service experiences have shaped his own life and mental health. The episode unpacks the far-reaching impacts that trauma can have on Veterans and their Families — even spanning across generations — emphasizing the need for awareness and increased support for affected Families.

Tarik Kadri served in the Canadian Armed Forces for 18 years, retiring as a Captain, Social Work Officer. Tarik is a registered social worker and trauma therapist and a member of the Atlas Institute’s Strategic Reference Group.

Key topics

• The key differences between trauma, vicarious trauma and intergenerational trauma
• The impacts of military service on Families, particularly children
• Guy’s personal experiences and reflections on growing up in a military Family
• Challenges faced by adult children of Veterans and first responders
• Support options and coping mechanisms for dealing with trauma-related issues
• Encouragement and advice for open conversations about mental health within Families

Resources

• Month of the Military Child — stories from military children and resources for parents and caregivers
• Dandelion child: How my military childhood shaped me
• Stories from young Veteran Family members, told in their own voices
• Why Is Daddy Like He Is? A book for kids about PTSD by Patience Mason
• Children’s e-books for military, Veteran and public safety personnel Families
• Making sense of why I am like I am: The journey of adult children of Veterans
• Recordings and materials from previous Veteran Family Summits  

Lire en français ici : https://atl-as.ca/mbtm-ep30-fr