Summary

In this episode of Emotionally Evicted, Mandy and Tami discuss the challenges of being in 'fixer mode' in relationships, particularly for women who have experienced trauma. They explore the concept of emotional projects, the importance of setting boundaries, and the journey towards self-awareness and healthy partnerships.

Takeaways

• Fixing others is not our responsibility.
• Emotional projects drain energy and offer no ROI.
• Healthy relationships require equality and self-awareness.
• Setting boundaries is crucial for self-preservation.
• Love does not mean managing someone else's growth.
• Self-awareness is key to breaking the fixer cycle.
• It's okay to love from a distance.
• The healing journey is personal and non-transferable.
• Cutting losses can lead to better gains.
• Support should be mutual, not one-sided.

Sound Bites

• Fixing him was never our job.
• Send him back to his mom.
• Women with trauma are wired to fix.
• Love does not mean managing growth.
• Cut your losses for better gains.
• The healing is their homework.
• Healthy relationships require equality.
• Emotional projects drain energy.
• Support should be mutual.
• Boundaries are crucial for self-preservation.

Chapters

• 00:00:01 Introduction to Fixer Mode
• 00:00:35 The Emotional Project Dilemma
• 00:01:25 Setting Boundaries and Self-Awareness
• 00:02:32 Love and Limits
• 00:03:39 The Healing Journey

We'd love to hear from you!

Share your experiences of stepping away from being the fixer or not taking on the role of a project manager in your relationships. How have you set boundaries or embraced self-awareness? Join the conversation by leaving a comment or sharing your story on social media with the hashtag #EmotionallyEvicted. Your journey could inspire others!

Keywords

fixer mode, emotional projects, trauma, boundaries, self-awareness, healthy relationships, partnership, self-help