High Fucking Standards

The Holidays, The Middle, & Starting Before You’re Ready


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The holidays hit different.

For some people, it’s joy.
For others, it’s loneliness, grief, stress, family tension, or just trying not to lose it in Target over wrapping paper.

And somehow — this is also the exact time of year when that urge shows up:
“I need to change my life.”

In this episode, I’m talking about:

  • Why the end-of-year energy messes with your head

  • Why waiting for the “right time” keeps you stuck

  • Why real change starts quietly, not on January 1st

  • The part nobody talks about — the middle, where nothing’s working yet

  • What The Pursuit of Happyness actually teaches about success

  • Why happiness isn’t guaranteed — only the pursuit is

  • How to start moving before you feel motivated, confident, or ready

This isn’t a motivational speech.
It’s a real conversation about doing the work when no one’s clapping yet.

If you’re tired, stuck, broke, lonely, or just questioning everything — you’re not behind.
You’re just in the middle.

🖤 Vision Reset Toolkit — Canva Vision Board Templates
For anyone ready to get clear and intentional now, not “someday.”
👉 https://theinheritedorder.com/products/vision-reset-toolkit-canva-templates

🎥 Matthew McConaughey — “Do It” (Motivational Video)
This hit me hard and stayed with me.
👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOZldmBo318&t=736s

I’m recording this show in my closet, still finding my voice, and figuring it out as I go — and I’m glad you’re here with me.

More episodes coming.
Hotline launching soon.
Interviews and video episodes coming next year.

Thanks for listening.
And remember — at some point, being miserable becomes a choice.

— Sarah Ficka

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High Fucking StandardsBy An AdaBrae Beauty Podcast. Founder, Sarah Ficka