That gets us to the second choice in our series. The second choice is in Jesus' second Beatitude. Look at Matthew 5:4.

4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.

The second choice is the hope choice. It is the choice to earnestly believe that God exists, that you matter to him, and that he has the power to help you change. It's based on this Beatitude - Matthew 5:4. "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted."