We frequently see that victims of abuse are blamed for what happens to them, by their partner or even those closest to them. Generally speaking, individuals have a hard time understanding why someone would keep returning to THAT kind of home life. But a more appropriate question could be, why does their partner keep treating them that way? OR what is the invisible anchor that is holding my friend captive to that toxic relationship? When we understand how strategic power and control moves can affect a victim’s hope for a peaceful life, we can begin to understand why leaving an abusive relationship is one of the hardest things someone can do.

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