Every season of your life leaves a mark.

Some lift you higher than you ever imagined —

and others break you down until all that’s left is the truth.

This is a chapter about understanding the rhythm of life.

The highs don’t last.

The lows don’t last.

But the person you become in the middle of all of it… that’s permanent.

We grow the most in the quiet moments —

the boring victories no one sees,

the days we show up even when we don’t feel like it,

the nights we try again despite not believing in ourselves.

And when you look back, you realize the struggle wasn’t punishment.

It was the preparation.

If you’re in a season that feels heavy, slow, confusing, or unfair…

just remember: the season always turns.

It always has.

It always will.

And when it does, you’ll look back and see that this was the moment that shaped you.

00:00 Nothing Lasts Forever

04:52 The Quiet Victories

09:10 The Emotional Weight of Growth

13:36 The Beauty of Looking Back

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Most people talk about winning.

This conversation is about the cost of trying to win too fast — and what it takes to build a life that can actually hold the weight of the business.

In this episode of The Journey, Ricardo sits down with Caleb for a raw, practical talk that moves from the realities of scaling a lawn care/home service business (systems, hiring, leadership, money) into the parts nobody wants to admit out loud: relationship standards, emotional discipline, and the seasons where you feel “locked in”… but you’re actually breaking your foundation.

If you’re a builder, creator, entrepreneur — or a man trying to grow without losing yourself — this one is a watch-to-the-end episode. Subscribe for more long-form conversations like this, and keep following The Journey.

00:00:00 Intro

00:01:53 Meeting Caleb

00:09:59 The Locked In Trap

00:29:53 You Can't Skip The Foundation

00:36:02 The Laundry Basket Test

00:45:54 Stop Tolerating Low Standards

00:56:09 The Weekly Test

01:01:56 Write It Down

01:11:53 The 3-Part Relationship Filter

01:17:57 Your standards At Home Show Up At Work

01:23:53 Separating Your Life From Business

01:31:58 Every Business Becomes A People Management Company

01:39:57 Flashy Goals Vs Real Authority

01:47:55 Documenting The Grind

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Most people think the hard part is getting clients.

The harder part is keeping trust—especially when you leave town, the phone won’t stop ringing, and your business starts exposing every crack in your life.

In this episode, Parker Charles Hodge and I talk through what it actually looks like to build a lawn care/landscaping business in real life: the seasons that blindside you, the marketing mistakes you only make once, and the moment you realize growth doesn’t just require more work—it requires better leadership.

We get into door hanger marketing, “Mulch Madness,” hiring and training crews, the difference between training vs micromanaging, and what burnout feels like when you push past your personal capacity.

Then we take it where most business conversations don’t: marriage, compromise, communication, and what it costs when entrepreneurship starts taking your weekends. If you’re building a service business, chasing excellence, or trying to become the kind of man who can carry more without losing himself—this one is for you.

Watch to the end for the leadership and “long game” lesson that reframes what dedication really looks like. Subscribe if you’re following the journey, and check the channel for more long-form conversations on business, discipline, and growth.

00:00 Intro

01:22 The Episode That Almost Didn’t Happen

03:38 Competitors As Allies

10:43 Mulch Madness

14:05 Door hangers & $20K Months

16:21 Training Is Culture

23:35 Business Reflects You

30:05 Compromise & Boundaries

39:43 Leading From the Front

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This episode is a deep conversation with Bristol about mastery, discipline, and what it really takes to build a career — and a life — you’re proud of.

From falling in love with the craft, to hitting ceilings, to teaching others how to level up, this isn’t a highlight-reel conversation. It’s about the slow, earned process of becoming undeniable.

We talk about:

• Mastery before money

• Discipline over motivation

• Teaching others without ego

• Loneliness at higher levels

• Confidence built through repetition

• Identity, self-trust, and responsibility

If you’re a barber, creator, entrepreneur, or anyone trying to turn skill into something lasting — this episode will hit close to home. Nothing here is rushed. Nothing here is fake. Everything here is earned.

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Every man has a season that happens in silence.

A season with no applause, no validation, no audience.

A season where the world gets quiet enough for you to hear your own doubts… and your own potential.

The Lonely Chapter is where transformation begins.

You’re not who you used to be, but you’re not who you’re becoming either —

you’re suspended in the middle, building a life no one sees yet.

It’s the early mornings, the empty rooms, the internal battles.

It’s the grind that doesn’t show up online.

It’s the chapter you must survive alone…

so you can emerge as someone new.

This is the price of entry.

And this chapter is where you pay it.

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Michael Bekele returns for a deep, unfiltered conversation about growth, discipline, pressure, and the responsibility that comes with becoming more than you used to be.

This episode isn’t about hype or shortcuts.

It’s about what happens after ambition, when motivation fades and the weight of consistency sets in.

We talk about:

• The pressure of growth

• Discipline over motivation

• Loneliness at higher levels

• Identity, ego, and self-trust

• The real cost of mastery

• And why most people quit right before things compound

If you’re building something, becoming someone, or carrying more responsibility than you ever have before — this conversation will hit.

Nothing here is theory.

Everything here is earned.

00:00:00 Intro

00:01:24 Re-Entering The Arena

00:08:50 Early Ambition & Naivety

00:18:45 The First Real Weight

00:29:40 Discipline Over Emotion

00:40:10 Loneliness At The Next Level

00:51:00 Identity, Ego, & Self Trust

01:01:30 The Cost Of Mastery

01:11:55 Perspective That Only Comes With Time

01:22:10 What Comes Next

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There are seasons in a man’s life that don’t make it onto a calendar.

No dates. No celebrations. No applause.

Just quiet work, silent battles, and a version of you nobody else ever meets.

This video is the beginning of that journey.

We start with The Lonely Chapter —

the season where nothing feels certain,

where you’re stuck between who you used to be

and who you’re desperately trying to become.

The grind is invisible. The progress is slow.

But this is the price of entry for any man who wants to grow.

Then we move into The Mirror Stage,

where you finally see yourself without filters, excuses, or validation.

This is where the truth catches up to you —

your insecurities, your motives, your ego.

It’s uncomfortable, but necessary.

From there, The Season Always Turns.

The highs and lows come and go,

and you learn that nothing — good or bad — lasts forever.

The struggle that once felt heavy

slowly becomes something beautiful in hindsight.

And finally, we reach The Weight of Wanting —

the chapter where ambition stops being a fantasy

and becomes a responsibility.

You start to understand the cost of chasing big goals,

the sacrifices behind mastery

and the difference between wanting “more”…

and appreciating “enough.”

This video is the intro to all of it.

A story of growth, loss, clarity, evolution, and becoming.

Every version of you had to die so the next one could live.

And it all starts here…

The Lonely Chapter.

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Everyone throws the word “discipline” around like it’s easy.

Like it’s simple.

Like it’s just “showing up.”

But in this video, I’m breaking down the real side of discipline — the part nobody posts on Instagram.

This is the kind of discipline that’s built at 5AM, when the bed is warm and the world is quiet.

The kind that shows up in business when the day goes wrong, clients cancel, stress piles up, and quitting feels easier than starting.

The kind that doesn’t look glamorous or motivational… but changes who you are.

In this episode, I talk about:

🔥 The first time discipline actually showed up in my life

Not when I was motivated — but when I wasn’t.

🔥 The real difference between motivation and discipline

Why one fades and the other becomes identity.

🔥 My weak spots and the battles I still face

Because discipline isn’t perfection — it’s awareness.

🔥 What it feels like when you enter flow state and stop relying on motivation

That moment when your identity takes over.

🔥 The price you pay when you lose discipline

Missed momentum, broken promises, and rebuilding trust with yourself.

🔥 The peace that discipline gives you

Not success, not fame — peace.

🔥 The storm analogy

Why discipline is like driving through a thunderstorm…

and why pushing through the worst parts is what makes you unshakable on the other side.

This isn’t a hype-up speech.

It’s not a tutorial.

It’s a conversation — raw, honest, earned.

If you’ve ever struggled with consistency, burnout, self-doubt, or losing momentum… this one is going to hit home.

Fifty episodes. Most creators don’t make it past twenty-one… but I pushed through that wall on purpose. Not to brag, but to prove to myself that this podcast isn’t a phase — it’s something I love, something I’m committed to, and something I’m still getting better at every single time I hit record.

Over these 50 episodes, I’ve met 19 guests — all from different backgrounds, different levels of success, different battles. But they all share one thing:

A desire to be better.

Not one of them was “comfortable” with where they were. And that’s the part that inspires me the most. No matter how big or small the win, they wanted more — so they did the work.

This video is a reflection on:

• The lessons I’ve learned from these conversations
• The golden nuggets you find even in episodes you don’t expect
• How listening has made me a better thinker, a better question-asker, and honestly… a better person
• Why staying open-minded is one of the most underrated skills for entrepreneurs
• What 50 episodes has taught me about storytelling, growth, and the grind

I’m nowhere near being a “master conversationalist,” but this journey has shown me that I don’t have to be — I just have to keep going.

To every guest who has sat across from me: you guys rock. And to everyone watching… we’re just getting started.

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This one’s personal.

No fancy edits, no gimmicks — just lessons and frameworks that shaped me.

🔹 A lot of people wait for perfect conditions to start, not realizing that starting is the perfect condition.

🔹 If you live in the future, you’re anxious. If you live in the past, you’re depressed. If you live in the now, you’re happy.

🔹 Life is like the gym — there’s always someone ahead of you and someone who’d kill to be where you are.

🔹 Trees don’t hang around in the grass even though they both started on bare dirt.

🔹 You don’t rise to your standards when no one’s watching — you fall to them. The real work is the work no one sees.

🔹 The difference is I can starve for as long as it takes, because I won’t settle for fast food.

🔹 God will never let what you lost be the best you ever had.

Then there’s escape velocity — that moment when everything clicks after years of pressure, doubt, and failure.

People call it “overnight success.” But it’s really the reward for everything you endured when no one was clapping.

This video is a reflection, a reminder, and a conversation — from me to you.

Because chasing success isn’t the goal. Becoming who you’re meant to be is.

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