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Welcome back to Relationship Reset!

Ever wonder why one of you gets frustrated at the drop of a hat while the other stays completely chill? Or why arguments escalate so fast, even when they start small? The secret isn’t avoiding fights altogether—it’s learning how to tolerate frustration without letting it take over.

In this episode, we’re diving into:

• Why some people lose their cool instantly while others stay calm.
• How low frustration tolerance makes arguments worse.
• The brain science behind frustration and emotional reactions.
• Practical tools to build frustration tolerance and regulate emotions.

Why This Matters:

Arguments are inevitable, but how you handle them determines whether they bring you closer or push you apart. Learning to regulate your frustration can transform the way you and your partner communicate—so fights don’t feel like the end of the world.

Your Next Steps:

✅ Practice pausing before reacting—take a deep breath before you speak.
✅ Use “I need a minute” as a reset button when emotions run high.
✅ If your partner gets reactive, don’t match their energy—stay steady.
✅ Try a 10-minute break when needed, then come back to the conversation.

Key Takeaway:

Frustration tolerance is the secret weapon to arguing better. By slowing down reactions and managing emotions, you and your partner can handle conflict in a way that strengthens—not weakens—your connection.

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